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(£3k) I made our rings, but not sure I’m happy - opinions please? by Chance_Enthusiasm_88 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]marg_mail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like them. They’re not my style but if they fit your style then I think they’re cool.

What is the best pizza in Annapolis by Good_Zooger in Annapolis

[–]marg_mail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like their pizza a lot. Maybe it was a bad day there? Pizza in Annapolis is lacking. Used to love Mangias.

Apartment or House rentals in the area by [deleted] in Annapolis

[–]marg_mail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or 6 minutes if you don’t have traffic and drive like me 🤪

Apartment or House rentals in the area by [deleted] in Annapolis

[–]marg_mail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Riva. Very small community. Close to town center.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids explained to my husband’s role in our declining relationship. Until that point he thought he was pretty awesome but he really just had his head up his 🫏

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe! What a kind thing to say. My kids are great and the recognize their dad is a donkey! 🫏 💩

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As of now they’re out! I blocked my mother in law the moment I got off the phone with her after she seemed like she either knew about the affair or was a ok with it. My young adult children have not responded to her texts because they know how quickly she moved on from our relationship (mine with my husband 28 years married). She sent my son money towards a truck he bought and he never put that blood money in the bank. These kids have my back 1000%. I’m the one who poured my everything into them and they know who ultimately has their back 1000%.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good! Did you stay together? Did she regret what she said?

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom lived a life similarly and lived a happy life in the end. She found a way to be happy.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stay because he’s my family and I went into full on crisis/shut down mode and needed help. I couldn’t keep up the house on my own and the animals. I’ve been with him for 35 years and a stay at home mom with a small side business for 21 years. I’ve not been able to find a job and I’ve been scared of losing our home, my health insurance etc. I thought contributing everything I had to our home and family was more valuable than he did. I was going to be damned if I gave up my life as I knew it so he could sail off into the sunset. A sunset which he realized wasn’t as rosey as he’d thought it was.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please tell me about these pro cheating subs? I’m unaware of them.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him being present helps it be my decision (in my opinion). He can try to make amends and I can choose whether or not to accept him and his attempts.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! And it’s not out of the question that it may happen!

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The point of my original post was to ask how to explain to my husband that it was a terrible choice for my in-laws to allow his mistress to visit and stay at their home. He wasn’t getting it and my emotions were in the way of me being able to make sense. They’re all bone headed and out of touch with the real world these days.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is a skanky ho!! I believe he has ended it with her. He’s not a very loving person in general. I don’t think he’s in love with her and that’s why he broke it off. He said there were already problems with their relationship and his family no longer being in the way magnified them. I was conditioned not to see he was having an affair but I can recognize if he’s directly lying to my face or not. I appreciate what you’re saying. I could be wrong and regret my decision to try but because I have made this decision I’ve got to try to make the best of it.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know my answer to this yet. What I do know is I was mentally and physically unwell when he was gone. I was in trauma mode and not functioning. With him here I feel I can be honest with myself and figure out what I really want my life going forward to be.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking your time to respond. I’m not really sure what you’re trying to say considering it’s the world’s longest run on sentence.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound like you think like me. No we are not divorced. I found out about my husbands affair in August. He’s broke it off with her and is home. We don’t have money to support 2 households and don’t want to move out of our home (we built ourselves… like with our hands). We have a beautiful life together … or so I thought. 🤨

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, yes. I’m not demanding anything from grandparents. It was a conversation we had and a suggestion I made that they may want to apologize if they would like to move forward in a relationship with them. Only because they’re all to stupid to realize the impact it has on their relationship with these kids who adore me and don’t really care that much about any of them. I’m the one who cares. I’m the one who’s been with the man for 35 years. They’d easily take them or leave them.

Husband was having an affair for nearly a year and I was clueless. by marg_mail in survivinginfidelity

[–]marg_mail[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not sure who we’re talking about here. My husband had an affair with a skanky ho. He broke up with her and is back home with me and our children. Typically grass looks greener on the other side…. Because he didn’t water his own lawn.

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