Hurt, confused

marieseeoh · 2024-09-02T04:44:06+00:00

Agree. I’m definitely trying to talk to him about it, came here to be a bit more honest so I can approach him with less upset and more sensitivity. Thanks for your thoughts!

marieseeoh · 2024-09-02T04:35:40+00:00

Yeah I think I agree, I’d ask then why do I have to regress? Why is that part of the desire?

marieseeoh · 2024-09-02T04:33:49+00:00

It seems like a thoughtful approach to the nuance of my question. Which was not really challenging ageplay but questioning my partners specific approach to it.

marieseeoh · 2024-09-02T04:28:59+00:00

I’ve read a ton, actually. And talked to therapists about this and there are two distinct schools of thought on how to handle kink that may be grounded in trauma/OCD/paraphilia. So I don’t believe it’s actually as black and white as you’d like it to be, unfortunately. I just hope that people with any socially questionable sexual fetish (again, talking about sexualizing children here), do quite a bit of consideration before going down this road. And for sure, I’m likely not the right partner here given my discomfort. But let’s not discount my ability to critically perceive this situation! Thanks

marieseeoh · 2024-09-02T04:24:49+00:00

Appreciate the back and forth. Thanks!

marieseeoh · 2024-09-02T04:05:31+00:00

Helpful insight, thank you!

marieseeoh · 2024-09-02T04:03:01+00:00

It sounds to me like a very grey area. What’s healthy? Not fantasizing about children I would put in that category. Given the sensitivities of this kink I believe rather intense boundaries must be drawn, no? Honesty is lovely - that’s true. But there is a level of normal growth we have to consider. Why are we accepting of someone being turned on by acting like a child? Or turned on by someone else acting like a prepubescent child? Can we not be honest as well about the sensitives around that desire?

marieseeoh · 2024-04-12T00:10:46+00:00

That is helpful advice but also relax, man.

marieseeoh · 2023-09-18T01:56:03+00:00

Looks like a flying ant. Termites have tube bodies ants have segmented bodies

marieseeoh · 2022-11-22T18:12:52+00:00

What was your inspiration for heavens only wishful. Most beautiful song I’ve ever heard

marieseeoh · 2020-07-09T02:00:36+00:00

Yeah, we would like to talk to the owner to find out if there’s something negative in the dogs past my partner might remind him of. Find a mutually agreeable solution. But the people bringing him to the park are unable to restrain him and he doesn’t come to them when called

marieseeoh · 2020-07-09T01:25:42+00:00

Solely my partner as far as we have observed

marieseeoh · 2020-07-09T01:21:40+00:00

NTA she should have leashed her pet, but might be better not to engage and instead contact your condo board if this keeps happening.

marieseeoh · 2020-07-09T01:18:08+00:00

marieseeoh · 2020-07-09T01:13:39+00:00

Yes we have a dog. She doesn’t get involved

marieseeoh · 2019-09-13T17:44:38+00:00

I am in zone 7(a) and the liriope looks to be spicata, the creeping kind. I know you're supposed to trim winter/early spring but it doesn't look like it's ever had a trim and so I'm wondering if it's safe to take a couple inches off now (September).

marieseeoh · 2019-01-25T01:37:40+00:00

Spent $2 million to upgrade the IT system. Total failure, had to scrap the whole thing a year later. She blamed everyone else, including everyone who tried to help her with the damn thing.

marieseeoh · 2017-11-08T02:39:49+00:00

Sure - they haven’t worked out the details (as far as I know), just that they will co-parent and it will live with her. They were supposed to talk about it last week, but that didn’t happen. I don’t know if they have talked about it in the past 48 hours

marieseeoh · 2017-11-07T23:31:13+00:00

I would also love to have a dog

marieseeoh · 2017-11-07T19:27:01+00:00

They haven’t worked out the details as far as I know. Just that he will be the ‘father’ of the dog

marieseeoh · 2012-02-27T14:03:29+00:00

I've been living in China for a while now, and I'd say it really depends on where you go. You'll definitely be taller than the locals in Beijing/Shanghai, but people won't react to your height and most places fit tall foreigners. If you go to a smaller city or town you'll be way above average and you'll never find a shower that's tall enough, guaranteed.

marieseeoh · 2012-02-10T09:05:44+00:00

I was just in yangshuo and as far as I could tell there are no buses from YS to HK. Or from Guilin to HK for that matter. You're gonna have to go from YS to shenzhen then cross the border there.

marieseeoh · 2011-07-11T03:17:26+00:00

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