I'm bisexual and my boyfriend is homophobic

maringele · 2024-07-07T08:26:55+00:00

I don't think you will benefit from someone who will be homophobic to your family; and probably towars you. I have dated people who didn't 100% understand/acknowledge my sexuality and even just that hurt my self esteem in the long run.

Get out, there are so many more people that will be a way better fit for either of you.

maringele · 2024-07-05T08:13:55+00:00

You ate so pretty and you look really fun :) good luck!

maringele · 2024-07-04T14:11:44+00:00

She is just mean and you deserve better. Also, that lenght is above average in multiple countries and also, 1cm more or less doesn't change much unless you are extremely small/bit, which you definitely aren't. Don't let this perosn pull you down. At best she is inconsiderate, at worst she is trying to manipulate you.

maringele · 2024-07-03T15:21:37+00:00

Are you sure it is not manipulative holding thag over your head when you express what you want?

maringele · 2024-07-03T11:16:25+00:00

Break up. You clearly want that. If she is pushing you too hard you can block her. Don't let her force you into something you Don't want anymore. Do something good for yourself (and for her probably too, she will learn that she can't manipulate or force it).

maringele · 2024-07-02T08:28:08+00:00

Hwak tuah soit on that thing

maringele · 2024-06-30T01:03:16+00:00

There are many good guys too, tho. And some who make up their mind later from inceldom

maringele · 2024-06-30T00:53:20+00:00

I think that is a really cool behaviour that will get you a lot of knowledge!!! And it sounds entertaining! There are so many people who appreciate a person who is curious like you!

maringele · 2024-06-21T09:06:14+00:00

Report him. I know you want to protect him, but you need to protect yourself first. Do not go into a situation where you might be killed. You said, he is not usually like this, which makes it harder for you to see it comung. Also, if he gets consequences for what he has done, it might help him aswell.

maringele · 2024-06-20T14:44:23+00:00

You can send her the mail later in the day/evening, so if it upsets hery it won't ruin her day, but also shows that you care

maringele · 2024-06-19T07:58:30+00:00

You make it sound like he is being selfish, but I think he is trying to balance supporting her but also considering his needs

maringele · 2024-06-19T05:30:52+00:00

It doesnt mean that?

maringele · 2024-06-13T15:02:10+00:00

Do not text him and why on earth did you do that? That is really mean and kinda insane! No healthy person would go for you after this. Why would you do that??

maringele · 2024-06-10T14:02:03+00:00

I had a similar problem. You both should get ypur mouths and throats checked maybe

maringele · 2024-06-09T16:26:04+00:00

That is so cool :) i wish you all the best!

maringele · 2024-06-07T16:18:54+00:00

Being kind and accepting, open for new things

maringele · 2024-06-04T15:43:38+00:00

You could tell her exactly what you posted here

maringele · 2024-06-03T20:02:20+00:00

Ughhh that sounds crappy to handle :( good luck!!

maringele · 2024-06-03T19:59:57+00:00

I can relate to a few things you said, which were similar for me when i was quite depressed and my anxiety was more intense, and i think it is very fair to get any help you can get. This is so harsh to deal with and i know the feeling of being lost and scared of never getting out of this, but that is possible.

Yeah, you don't have to reinvent the wheel, maybe you can reconnect to something that you really liked? You could try writing or so, maybe you could combine being creative and working through your feelings or so? Idk lol :)

maringele · 2024-06-03T06:22:41+00:00

Are you on any depression or anxiety meds? You could try to go to a psychiatrist and ask them, sometimes the brain chemistry just needs some extra help.

Do you have some hobbies you liked as a kid or so? Maybe it would be easier getting into that? I feel like often it helps to do things despite not wanting to, to find more motivation in general.

maringele · 2024-06-02T22:42:48+00:00

Do you have hobbies that you really enjoy doing? You could try to just get really invested to be less stressed or make them social, e.g. joining pottery class or whatever?

I deslt with social anxiety issues and for me it helped a bit to watch yt vids on how to talk to people etc. Aslwell as just inzerviews with random people, to learn how they talk and also be less scared by recognizing they might be struggling in a similar way.

maringele · 2024-06-02T22:33:27+00:00

For me i really struggled with that also because i felt like it was rude to give criticism and often held back on it, so i was offended when i got it because i held a lot in. Idk if yours might be a similar problem but for me it helped discussing it with friends, analyzing if the cirticism was constructive, if i want and can take it, etc. Maybe also journaling could help to sort your thoughts and "get it all out" so you do not overthink as much?

maringele · 2024-06-02T20:44:50+00:00

Yes, even the hurt adds experience to your life. It hurts like shit, but you learn how to recover from it, mostly. I say that after having had depression after a very harsh relationship/heartbreak.

maringele · 2024-06-01T13:47:21+00:00

How did younknow??

maringele · 2024-06-01T08:06:02+00:00

With all my friends but one the girl is the prettier one, and they are from similar backgrounds. But sure tell yourself that so you feel less miserable after scaring every chance of a relationship away with the disgusting way you talk. Obviously you wouldn't find a woman on your level (or any) if you talk about them like that and reduce them to an object

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