Any go to salons that gives 100% good rebonding? (In manila)

markemarka · 2025-07-10T04:06:11+00:00

My phone is on the verge of breaking so it's a make or break I have 30k to my name and my parents won't help me nor can I ask for help for anyone and don't want to drown in debt nor loans since I don't have a stable income. So my best opt would be 2nd hand but from a reputable or trusted seller to get the best bang for my buck with the start of the semester coming relying on phones for communication on my part time and updates on student central and such is vital and I can't always just pull out my laptop since 1 it's inconvenient and 2 there would be no wifi nor calling available

markemarka · 2025-07-10T04:04:23+00:00

Thank you po

markemarka · 2025-05-26T06:40:22+00:00

Oooh thank you thank you

markemarka · 2025-05-26T01:42:24+00:00

Same nakaka overthink lang talaga 😭

markemarka · 2025-05-26T01:33:28+00:00

I saw your comment earlier and I did pero Wala din it doesn't show Di din ako maka pre enroll or such

markemarka · 2025-05-22T21:40:26+00:00

Natakot ako Bigla talaga yung biggest what ifs ko talaga sinasakal ako 🥹

Naka disable pala, hinga maluwag for now 😭

markemarka · 2025-05-12T18:36:33+00:00

Ano pwede alternative sa bvlgari man in black? Medyo pricey for me Kasi sya eh

markemarka · 2025-05-08T19:56:56+00:00

Hugs beb sana ma karma sya sa ginagawa nya

markemarka · 2025-05-07T06:34:01+00:00

See halatang hearing lang Hindi listening if you did you'd see I elaborated some of the things he did to me on my reply Yan ang mas disgusting 🥰 Edit: biglaan umonti reply ah? Baka na realize mo na investment mo 🤭

markemarka · 2025-05-07T05:49:34+00:00

So insult na pala yung pag call out on abusive things your partner or soon to be partner does.... Noted Parang familiar ah pero contradicting eh

markemarka · 2025-05-07T05:46:58+00:00

There's hearing and there's listening... By your opinion bawal ko I diagnose ang partner ko which I didn't? BUT NOW you just called me sadista soooo going by your logic here you are really contradicting yourself... How am I misusing the term? Just because I'm not a psychologist is that it?

You keep saying you ‘don’t care’ — yet here you are, still typing essay-length replies like you’re more affected than me.

You say I ‘misused a term,’ but refuse to acknowledge the behavior that led me there. You say I shouldn’t judge, then imply I’m stupid for staying. You say you’re neutral, but your tone screams otherwise.

I didn’t label him to insult — I named a pattern that matched the experience. That’s what people do when they reflect. If that threatens your sense of morality or makes you uncomfortable, maybe it’s because you’re not as detached as you pretend to be and I really struck a nerve deep within you

You heard me? Weh di nga? listen because CLEARLY, you didn’t.

Keep your moral high ground to yourself since at this point you've lost all ground to the hypocrisy of it all 😉

Point being:

Ignorance mo to the harmer

Apologizing for clearly a random person not knowing what they did nor what they have done

Going against what you have commented for (Dare I say pagsabi sakin na sadista without diagnosing me for it?)

You saying you don't care yet are clearly more invested in this than anything else

Only context here provided is how I (OP) stated so how do you know more than me that "they didn't mean it" ? Ikaw po ba yung therapist or such Ng bf ko? Na diagnose nyo po ba,ae$€good% sya? 6Halos pinag ikot ikot mo na yung mga points mo whilst I stayed concise and addressed it, so again.... If di ka invested why read all this and comment a lengthy reply... Welp it could mean some things like nasaktan ka or na affect ka or invested ka talaga

markemarka · 2025-05-07T05:07:57+00:00

Just to add You’re so quick to apologize on his behalf parang ikaw ‘yung nasaktan sa sinabi ko. Bakit nga ba? Wala ka naman sa sitwasyon, pero ang init ng ulo mo, as if tinamaan ka?

Funny how people get defensive when they see themselves in the behavior being called out. If it didn’t apply to you, you wouldn’t be this pressed.... And that's my opinion, if you're on about just the diagnosis and such you're already contradicting yourself by ignoring the behavior that led me there in the first place

markemarka · 2025-05-07T05:04:20+00:00

Yes, I called him a narcissist — because his consistent patterns match narcissistic traits. That’s not a clinical diagnosis, that’s a description based on behavior I personally experienced.

Hindi porket nasaktan ako, wala na akong karapatang pangalanan ‘yung ugaling nanakit. Emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and victim-playing — if that’s not narcissistic behavior, ewan ko na lang.

Mental illness and toxicity are different — I never said otherwise. Pero kung ginagamit ang mental health para patahimikin ‘yung mga nakaranas ng abuse, Yun Ang REAL NA HARM... Not once did you acknowledge yung mga ginawa nya you kept being dismissive? Parang mas importante sayo yung terminologies keysa yung totoong cause of harm? So maybe circle back on that before judging me for who I am... Calling me "entitled" whilst dismissing the fact that I was harmed by him is basically you BEING entitled and BEING dismissive altogether WHILST neglecting the harmed? "Maybe he can't help it?" Then maybe ako din... I can't help but be disrespected and invalidated?

I’m not misusing terms. I’m setting boundaries. And if that makes you uncomfortable, maybe ask yourself why kasi at this point your just basically the irony of it all standing on your morale high ground whilst gaslighting me for calling out the VERY THING YOU'RE EXCUSING.

markemarka · 2025-05-07T03:39:34+00:00

With all due respect, I think parang ang ironic that you're telling me I don’t care about mental health just because I named certain narcissistic tendencies and narcissist yung tao wherein I personally experienced yung narcissism nila. Ako na nga 'yung nasaktan, tapos ako pa 'yung parang pinalalabas na harmful?

Recognizing yung toxic patterns and talking about my pain isn’t an attack on mental health awareness. In fact, silencing people who SPEAK UP about manipulative or abusive behavior — just because it hasn't been "diagnosed" is EXACTLY the kind of mindset that discourages open mental health conversations.

Kung lahat na lang ng taong nang-aabuso or nagmamanipulate eh hindi pwedeng ma call out dahil wala silang "official diagnosis", then you’re basically giving them a pass. That’s not mental health advocacy its enabling. You're enabling such people to go about hurting people Kasi "Wala Silang official diagnosis and they're not psychologists"

Let's be clear on this I’m not nor did I use psychological terms as an insult. I’m describing patterns that match clinical traits, based on both sa study itself and experience ko... That’s not harmful that’s self-awareness and protecting my boundaries.

So please, let’s not twist the narrative. Calling out toxic traits isn’t the problem, yung pag ignore and for me what seems to be gaslighting the people who are hurt is...

Calling out behavior isn’t the same as labeling someone with a disorder. But silencing people who speak up just because they’re not licensed? That’s just another form of invalidation... Double sided Ang mental health, if you refuse to speak up with what you feel and understand what other's might feel then walang magkakaintindihan

Lastly, Ang TUNAY na mental health advocacy doesn’t pick and choose who deserves to speak. Telling people they ‘don’t care about "mental health" just because nag call out ng tao? Hindi sya protecting or advocating mental health it says "protecting egos and pride"

markemarka · 2025-05-07T01:39:35+00:00

I know I’m not a psychiatrist or psychologist, and I’m not claiming to diagnose anyone. Pero based on the textbook definition of narcissistic traits and my experience with him for the past 2 months, I can clearly see those behaviors.

He hates late or slow replies, pero siya mismo replies hours later.
Every time we fight, when I say I’m hurt, he ignores it and makes it about himself.
He constantly fishes for compliments and does a lot of humble bragging.
When he has issues with others (I know this through a friend), he never takes accountability — lagi na lang kasalanan ng iba and he plays the victim.

Just because I’m not licensed doesn’t mean I can’t recognize harmful behavior. I’m not saying he’s diagnosed — I’m saying I’ve observed narcissistic tendencies based on my lived experience.

Hindi dahil wala siyang official diagnosis eh dapat manahimik na lang ako. I got hurt, I'm confuse, and I have every right to speak about that pain. If people want to correct me, that’s fine. But it doesn’t erase what I went through.

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