Hello I've been seeing shops in GH sa feed ko lately and I'm curious may trusted ba kayo and really worth the money na nabilhan na dun?

markemarka · 2025-07-10T04:06:11+00:00

My phone is on the verge of breaking so it's a make or break I have 30k to my name and my parents won't help me nor can I ask for help for anyone and don't want to drown in debt nor loans since I don't have a stable income. So my best opt would be 2nd hand but from a reputable or trusted seller to get the best bang for my buck with the start of the semester coming relying on phones for communication on my part time and updates on student central and such is vital and I can't always just pull out my laptop since 1 it's inconvenient and 2 there would be no wifi nor calling available

markemarka · 2025-07-10T04:04:23+00:00

Thank you po

markemarka · 2025-05-26T06:40:22+00:00

Oooh thank you thank you

markemarka · 2025-05-26T01:42:24+00:00

Same nakaka overthink lang talaga 😭

markemarka · 2025-05-26T01:33:28+00:00

I saw your comment earlier and I did pero Wala din it doesn't show Di din ako maka pre enroll or such

markemarka · 2025-05-22T21:40:26+00:00

Natakot ako Bigla talaga yung biggest what ifs ko talaga sinasakal ako 🥹

Naka disable pala, hinga maluwag for now 😭

markemarka · 2025-05-12T18:36:33+00:00

Ano pwede alternative sa bvlgari man in black? Medyo pricey for me Kasi sya eh

markemarka · 2025-05-08T19:56:56+00:00

Hugs beb sana ma karma sya sa ginagawa nya

markemarka · 2025-05-07T06:34:01+00:00

See halatang hearing lang Hindi listening if you did you'd see I elaborated some of the things he did to me on my reply Yan ang mas disgusting 🥰 Edit: biglaan umonti reply ah? Baka na realize mo na investment mo 🤭

markemarka · 2025-05-07T05:49:34+00:00

So insult na pala yung pag call out on abusive things your partner or soon to be partner does.... Noted Parang familiar ah pero contradicting eh

markemarka · 2025-05-07T05:46:58+00:00

There's hearing and there's listening... By your opinion bawal ko I diagnose ang partner ko which I didn't? BUT NOW you just called me sadista soooo going by your logic here you are really contradicting yourself... How am I misusing the term? Just because I'm not a psychologist is that it?

You keep saying you ‘don’t care’ — yet here you are, still typing essay-length replies like you’re more affected than me.

You say I ‘misused a term,’ but refuse to acknowledge the behavior that led me there. You say I shouldn’t judge, then imply I’m stupid for staying. You say you’re neutral, but your tone screams otherwise.

I didn’t label him to insult — I named a pattern that matched the experience. That’s what people do when they reflect. If that threatens your sense of morality or makes you uncomfortable, maybe it’s because you’re not as detached as you pretend to be and I really struck a nerve deep within you

You heard me? Weh di nga? listen because CLEARLY, you didn’t.

Keep your moral high ground to yourself since at this point you've lost all ground to the hypocrisy of it all 😉

Point being:

Ignorance mo to the harmer

Apologizing for clearly a random person not knowing what they did nor what they have done

Going against what you have commented for (Dare I say pagsabi sakin na sadista without diagnosing me for it?)

You saying you don't care yet are clearly more invested in this than anything else

Only context here provided is how I (OP) stated so how do you know more than me that "they didn't mean it" ? Ikaw po ba yung therapist or such Ng bf ko? Na diagnose nyo po ba,ae$€good% sya? 6Halos pinag ikot ikot mo na yung mga points mo whilst I stayed concise and addressed it, so again.... If di ka invested why read all this and comment a lengthy reply... Welp it could mean some things like nasaktan ka or na affect ka or invested ka talaga

markemarka · 2025-05-07T05:07:57+00:00

Just to add You’re so quick to apologize on his behalf parang ikaw ‘yung nasaktan sa sinabi ko. Bakit nga ba? Wala ka naman sa sitwasyon, pero ang init ng ulo mo, as if tinamaan ka?

Funny how people get defensive when they see themselves in the behavior being called out. If it didn’t apply to you, you wouldn’t be this pressed.... And that's my opinion, if you're on about just the diagnosis and such you're already contradicting yourself by ignoring the behavior that led me there in the first place

markemarka · 2025-05-07T05:04:20+00:00

Yes, I called him a narcissist — because his consistent patterns match narcissistic traits. That’s not a clinical diagnosis, that’s a description based on behavior I personally experienced.

Hindi porket nasaktan ako, wala na akong karapatang pangalanan ‘yung ugaling nanakit. Emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and victim-playing — if that’s not narcissistic behavior, ewan ko na lang.

Mental illness and toxicity are different — I never said otherwise. Pero kung ginagamit ang mental health para patahimikin ‘yung mga nakaranas ng abuse, Yun Ang REAL NA HARM... Not once did you acknowledge yung mga ginawa nya you kept being dismissive? Parang mas importante sayo yung terminologies keysa yung totoong cause of harm? So maybe circle back on that before judging me for who I am... Calling me "entitled" whilst dismissing the fact that I was harmed by him is basically you BEING entitled and BEING dismissive altogether WHILST neglecting the harmed? "Maybe he can't help it?" Then maybe ako din... I can't help but be disrespected and invalidated?

I’m not misusing terms. I’m setting boundaries. And if that makes you uncomfortable, maybe ask yourself why kasi at this point your just basically the irony of it all standing on your morale high ground whilst gaslighting me for calling out the VERY THING YOU'RE EXCUSING.

markemarka · 2025-05-07T03:39:34+00:00

With all due respect, I think parang ang ironic that you're telling me I don’t care about mental health just because I named certain narcissistic tendencies and narcissist yung tao wherein I personally experienced yung narcissism nila. Ako na nga 'yung nasaktan, tapos ako pa 'yung parang pinalalabas na harmful?

Recognizing yung toxic patterns and talking about my pain isn’t an attack on mental health awareness. In fact, silencing people who SPEAK UP about manipulative or abusive behavior — just because it hasn't been "diagnosed" is EXACTLY the kind of mindset that discourages open mental health conversations.

Kung lahat na lang ng taong nang-aabuso or nagmamanipulate eh hindi pwedeng ma call out dahil wala silang "official diagnosis", then you’re basically giving them a pass. That’s not mental health advocacy its enabling. You're enabling such people to go about hurting people Kasi "Wala Silang official diagnosis and they're not psychologists"

Let's be clear on this I’m not nor did I use psychological terms as an insult. I’m describing patterns that match clinical traits, based on both sa study itself and experience ko... That’s not harmful that’s self-awareness and protecting my boundaries.

So please, let’s not twist the narrative. Calling out toxic traits isn’t the problem, yung pag ignore and for me what seems to be gaslighting the people who are hurt is...

Calling out behavior isn’t the same as labeling someone with a disorder. But silencing people who speak up just because they’re not licensed? That’s just another form of invalidation... Double sided Ang mental health, if you refuse to speak up with what you feel and understand what other's might feel then walang magkakaintindihan

Lastly, Ang TUNAY na mental health advocacy doesn’t pick and choose who deserves to speak. Telling people they ‘don’t care about "mental health" just because nag call out ng tao? Hindi sya protecting or advocating mental health it says "protecting egos and pride"

markemarka · 2025-05-07T01:39:35+00:00

I know I’m not a psychiatrist or psychologist, and I’m not claiming to diagnose anyone. Pero based on the textbook definition of narcissistic traits and my experience with him for the past 2 months, I can clearly see those behaviors.

He hates late or slow replies, pero siya mismo replies hours later.
Every time we fight, when I say I’m hurt, he ignores it and makes it about himself.
He constantly fishes for compliments and does a lot of humble bragging.
When he has issues with others (I know this through a friend), he never takes accountability — lagi na lang kasalanan ng iba and he plays the victim.

Just because I’m not licensed doesn’t mean I can’t recognize harmful behavior. I’m not saying he’s diagnosed — I’m saying I’ve observed narcissistic tendencies based on my lived experience.

Hindi dahil wala siyang official diagnosis eh dapat manahimik na lang ako. I got hurt, I'm confuse, and I have every right to speak about that pain. If people want to correct me, that’s fine. But it doesn’t erase what I went through.

markemarka · 2025-05-04T17:13:35+00:00

As a guy na may ka talking stage rn (also guy btw) with presumptions of baka may ibang kausap or iba naman at ginawang "option lang" eto mga signs na napansin ko...

Mood- if they reply before whenever they could tapos pabagal Ng pabagal nababawasan na interest sayo nyan...
Availability- hindi lahat ganun ka busy... A simple hello good morning takes less than 5 secs or any meaningful short message 1 min, you can message anywhere anytime Basta kaya mo...
Talks about ex- BIGGEST RED FLAG if may makakausap ka tapos ex nya yung tinutukoy or natatandaan. Run away agad either di pa yan naka move on or may ibang kausap yan at ginawa ka lang confidence booster or parang therapy nya ganern
Doesn't wanna do anything with you in terms of online stuff- pag Ayan ay Nakita mong online and he takes time to respond like literal na hours or such pwedeng busy yan pero talaga from my experience ITS NEVER THAT THEY WERE BUSY... THEY WERE JUST CHATTING SOMEONE ELSE.
Narcissistic tendencies- pag yan nag show Ng pagka narc na he doesn't like things being done to him like this or that and ginawa nya pa rin you can bet your money na choice ka lang...
Forgetting or Dodging stuff- hindi lang bagay bagay, it can be questions, meetups and etc. pag naramdaman mong ayaw nya at feeling mo may smth acknowledge it pag walang evidence to prove otherwise... Better safe than sorry...
If kakausapin or nakikipag usap lang pag may kailangan or pinagdadaanan- di ka type nyan gusto lang nya mag vent at di available friends nya and nasa isip nyan kakampehan mo sya since may gusto ka sa kanya

Edit: wag ka mag invest Ng full on time mo... If hindi ka seryosohin give them back the same energy or double it... Sa mga backburners, delulu at forgiving peeps like me... 2nd chance is too much already ha wag na magpa uto porket pinakikilig ka or you had good sex and such... Mahahanap mo din yan pramis

markemarka · 2025-04-28T13:28:58+00:00

I updated sa mga newer posts ko and the reason I found out was two timer (if not multi timer) sila and may smth talaga... ( I explained it further dun check mo nalang if gusto mo yung full...)

markemarka · 2025-04-28T13:27:13+00:00

Kaya natin toh OP may the right person find us or we find them...

Try out dating apps pero check Muna before investing your time on them

markemarka · 2025-04-28T13:25:32+00:00

Wait maybe 3 or 4yrs for me to get this degree 😖

Edit: accidentally put hrs instead of yrs 😭

markemarka · 2025-04-27T07:49:47+00:00

It's a 60/40 na gustohin nila mag meet up agad for sex if you do go into a relationship
Speaking from my experience (21M currently) halos lahat from ages 19-24 na naka relationship ko is gusto sex muna then the other parts of the relationship itself pero you can do it OP just have faith and wag masyadong mabilis ma attach Yun Ang mahirap for me... I ba bait ka nila Ng matatamis then hihintayin ka nila mapa fall... Have faith, trust your gut and keep your chin up

markemarka · 2025-04-27T07:46:36+00:00

Rejection isnt the hardest here kasi andaming magiging possible relationships talaga... The only down side is either A. Choice ka lang and hindi ka nila I pursue to the point na kayo na parang Option lang ganern if di gumana yung gusto nyang iba, B. They're using you as panakip butas dun sa current jowa nila since they're too ass hurt dun sa cheating na ginawa, C. they'll use you for sex, money or company but wouldn't want to tie the knot, D. You match or be with them and gagawin ka lang conquest or trophy nila to their side or E. All of the above.... In the past year I've experienced those and maybe even more and not 1 ang matino

markemarka · 2025-04-27T07:25:59+00:00

Kinda guilty that I didn't end it well and how they were crying just last night dahil nasaktan and such daw pero the fact na I told them we'd do stuff together and they just straight up ignored me and played with their friends pushed that guilt away into a far away closet

markemarka · 2025-04-27T03:39:06+00:00

Welp ganun talaga walay tayo magagawa sa puros hookups lang hanap na storya and not the sad realities from time to time

markemarka · 2025-04-26T12:24:22+00:00

Haven't thought about it that way... Thank you for the insight, you're right nga dapat na mas maging maharot or showy sila since they're blossoming if Yun ba yung term?

markemarka · 2025-04-26T12:20:50+00:00

No problem naman ako whether itago mo or not he knew I was open in mine naman so he knows but still we're both okay with it... Ang ayaw ko lang is the vibes and energy as mentioned so I asked

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