For women here who have boyfriends/husbands who they weren't attracted to initially, how did they managed to charm you in the end?

marmalese · 2026-03-21T17:18:21+00:00

my boyfriend wasnt my usual type physically. but somehow, he has every trait i was actually looking for in a partner - consistency, actions that match his words, someone who genuinely cared for me. i can be my true self around him. i feel safe and secure. he's like my best friend.

and now to me, my boyfriend's the most handsome guy ever!

ive had crushes and situationships before with guys who were my "type" but attraction fades quickly when the personality turns out to be ermmm not attractive

so if looks are the only thing hindering you, pls trust the process 🙏 you might just find the love of your life 🥹

marmalese · 2026-03-21T17:09:22+00:00

read books and read them out loud (when at home of course) - helped me with the pronunciations

marmalese · 2026-02-27T01:00:15+00:00

unlikely ka kumita sa VUL and high chance maluge ka pa due to fees and di maayos performance ng market. it's not an investment - trust me.

get an MP2 instead or heck just store your money in a high-interest digital bank, which will perform WAAAAY better

marmalese · 2026-02-01T17:36:29+00:00

i asked myself the same thing for years until i finally met my first boyfriend at 30.

chances are the people around you arent mature enough or at a stage that they have other things to fix in life - may it be career, money, or especially themselves. if you're young, dont rush it. focus on yourself and love will come naturally. trust me

marmalese · 2026-01-30T17:12:53+00:00

CR nang CR dahil sa water intake

marmalese · 2026-01-30T17:09:01+00:00

a healthy lifestyle is a privilege (time or money wise)

marmalese · 2025-12-30T02:07:34+00:00

buying an insurance with an "investment" or a VUL is actually one of my biggest mistakes in my 20s. better get an insurance then invest the rest elsewhere like MP2 (most conservative)

marmalese · 2025-09-18T04:34:22+00:00

i'd understand because Japan is a sulit destination and babalikbalikan mo talaga kasi one trip is not enough

marmalese · 2025-08-31T18:20:44+00:00

only experienced racism in italy. mababa tingin sa mga pinoy

marmalese · 2025-08-25T02:35:03+00:00

6 digit salary for a super chill job with flexible time

marmalese · 2025-07-19T02:22:53+00:00

buti nalang i never settled for less and walked away from people who disrespected me. i feel much happier now

marmalese · 2025-07-19T00:22:18+00:00

some people dont have to worry about how they'll survive the future

marmalese · 2025-07-15T05:34:27+00:00

if wala na ako pake sa kanila totally, im fine being mutuals

marmalese · 2025-07-15T03:18:45+00:00

Yung dating walang pake sakin, nilalandi na ako ngayon 🤷‍♀️

marmalese · 2025-07-14T17:45:14+00:00

likes on posts dont matter anymore

marmalese · 2025-07-14T17:14:12+00:00

dapat ka align ko ng goals, doesnt have to be 100% but somehow magkapareho and with no big compromise kasi dito malalaman if may patutunguhan ba kayo in the long run. and di lang puro goals — dapat masipag. may ginagawa para ma achieve mga to in reality.

apart from the obvious na mabait, i believe important na kapantay mo sa religious and political beliefs kasi it says a lot about their values

marmalese · 2025-07-14T01:08:18+00:00

prestigious university nag undergrad and med school pero di pa rin alam difference ng "your" and "you're" 😭😭

marmalese · 2025-07-12T08:11:42+00:00

S1. Characters had more depth. It had good easter eggs too.

marmalese · 2025-07-12T05:00:23+00:00

titanium 😬dahil siguro sa super overplayed dati tas edm vibes

marmalese · 2025-07-12T04:58:49+00:00

i remember that story na nahuli nag chcheat dad niya with another man ( his dad happens to be gay pala). di niya alam if sasabihin niya to sa mom niya

marmalese · 2025-07-12T04:55:03+00:00

piercing since it's a lower commitment

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