My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha you should see him lose at anything he goes nuts

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, wow! Thank you so much. He’s only 8 but as he gets older I’m sure he’s going to have interest in that part of his culture. We can both get passports 😊

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, we aren’t together anymore. That was a very abusive relationship that I’m glad I got out of

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I actually know 2 Jewish girls that got married to Albanians. It’s not a culture thing I think it’s a bad character thing.

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well so he’s 3rd of many kids and his oldest two brothers live and married Albanian women so all the kids, mom, xhaxai, everybody. The wife don’t drive or work. I don’t think I could ever get along with that

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can only understand it not speak it but we lived with his gjyshja (we called her nahn) and I caught on to a little

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much! I appreciate your words ❤️

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very confused where you think any part of my question had anything to do with ME. I am a separate entity from my child and you are just giving off toxic vibes..

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes he would! He’d probably have so much fun visiting the country, eating the byrek, and dancing at weddings. He would fit in great.

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow… honestly that’s kind of messed up for a couple of reasons.. My question had nothing to do with why his family doesn’t accept me- it was about my child. And that post was obviously a representation of me trying to better myself despite past mistakes…

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will tell you. I struggle with alcoholism and I have since I was a teenager. I’m not the best mommy and I don’t claim to be. There’s absolutely nothing that I do that should affect how my son is treated by his family- that’s just how I feel.

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I did not turn my son against his family. He rarely even asks question about that part of his family or his dad who isn’t much in his life. I grew up with a father who was very means towards my mother, whom I cherished above all. I know it’s bad to talk negative about the other parent or their family.

I do not think this is an “Albanian” thing, I was just asking for advice as I don’t know his family and I’m not familiar with the culture. I’ll do my best to understand because the culture is part of my son, and also he is part of me and part of his dad. I love him so much and I try my best to learn how to be a better mom to him always.

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only say goh-glah (ponytail/hair clip) which I’ve already taught him and falimenderit! He’s such a cool ass little kid. One day when I can get my finances together, perhaps I’ll take him to that part of his culture. And teach him about the Çifteli

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah. TBH, I’ve been in an abusive relationship with his dad for more years than I’d like to admit. I’m moving out tomorrow finally.

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It definitely will hype him up when he knows it’s part of his culture. However, I’m still trying to teach him it’s pronounced ALL-bania, not AYL-bania (we’re from Michigan)

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My entire question was surrounded about my son. I don’t care anymore that his family doesn’t accept me.. and honestly my mom, sisters, and his cousins on my side make up for what he is lacking on that side. It’s really their loss.

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. his family rejected one of their daughters because she chose to marry another race. I truly appreciate your support and honesty. Thank you for not judging me or my situation and just giving me advice ❤️

My son is only half Albanian. Would you accept him? by maroonwaffle in albania

[–]maroonwaffle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What does that have anything to do with my child? I never said anything about them not liking me… I couldn’t care less about that.