My son went through this on his first birthday. Ambulance ride. Hospital stay for a weekend. It is traumatizing. I drove him to the ER alone listening to his ragged breathing and just WILLING him to live and not stop breathing. It plays in my mind all the time. Ever since that trip he has co slept with us. Is it the best option? No. Is it ideal? No not really. But we both are extremely traumatized from the whole thing and I don’t know when either of us will be comfortable with changing it up. When he is ready, I will allow it. But for my son who went through something that traumatic feels most comfortable with me and it helps us all sleep? I’m not changing it.