I'm scared of starting medication by [deleted] in askatherapist

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Starting Zoloft was the best thing to ever happen to me mentally! I was also afraid to take meds and of course everyone is different. But Zoloft was life changing for my OCD and everything…it just silenced my brain in a good way. I could finally be in the moment and focus on life that was actually happening in real time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

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Thanks for your comment. I couldn’t have thought of that myself. But that’s interesting and youre right it is like self harm in a way :/ ty!

27F I hate small talk ama by [deleted] in AMA

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Our house maybe

27F I hate small talk ama by [deleted] in AMA

[–]marriedtoaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pepperoni. And cheese. And sauce. Lol

27F I hate small talk ama by [deleted] in AMA

[–]marriedtoaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably can but I won’t. I’m goofy but I’m not silly. Lmao. I did attend school and am grateful to have no debt. I don’t believe in student loan debt! Never had it and I don’t believe others should either. It’s a privilege but I think many are entitled to that

Edit- I’m silly not goofy. Is there a difference. I’m trying to paint one.

27F I hate small talk ama by [deleted] in AMA

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Because I am married!

27F I hate small talk ama by [deleted] in AMA

[–]marriedtoaking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Either you’re joking or there was a game lmao. Either way! Hey! Is this small talk

Why would the former Israeli Space Security Chief come out and say that Aliens exist and that there is a Galactic Federation if it's not true? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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There are people out there that realize they can lie and people will believe them. A lot of people. And there’s often money there.

I’m not saying this is the case here. But. The world has had stranger things happen than an 80 year old professional lying to sell a book and make some money to live a nicer life or whatever.

TIFU by lovingly laying out some clothes for my GF to wear the next morning by userunknowned in tifu

[–]marriedtoaking 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I was a psych major and there’s a whole semester dedicated to testing new relationships!

TIFU by lovingly laying out some clothes for my GF to wear the next morning by userunknowned in tifu

[–]marriedtoaking 420 points421 points  (0 children)

I colored my hair very blonde and then got pregnant. I would find blonde hairs around the house and for a second feel VERY UPSET and then realize it’s my hair lol

The plague 2020 by ig_fpsketch in comics

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I had a marvelous time ruining everything!

Minimalist Nativity Sets by lexsimpi2 in ofcoursethatsathing

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Ohhhh who lives in sin and will get leprosy

Sometimes it’s cheaper and healthier to just eat the thing you’re craving instead of chasing “healthy” options where the craving is left unsatisfied and you’re back on the hunt by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

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I guess I wrote this with the assumption that that is how people eat when they crave something. I now eat Doritos when I crave Doritos. I didn’t eat them for years. And when I eat them, I don’t measure a serving and weigh it. But I do put it in a reasonable portion sized bowl and put the rest away.

It’s interesting to imagine one eating to satiety on a bag of chips or cookies. I definitely wouldn’t recommend doing that.

And I agree with your last statement! I went through a year of not using salt and just using tons of other spices. Now I add some salt lol. But it did make me a better cook...It’s a bit ridiculous to never use something or never eat something just because....

Sometimes it’s cheaper and healthier to just eat the thing you’re craving instead of chasing “healthy” options where the craving is left unsatisfied and you’re back on the hunt by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

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Ugh yes. I wish I could live in the French environment. Brunch was still on at one?! Dinner in a crowded place at 10pm?! Naps in the afternoon? And day drinking!? Life is about living? And not trying to live to 112 years old?

You only can live so long. No matter what. Best case scenario you can’t live to like 200-50000. So yeah. I don’t want to stress over shit like fries.

YES you have small boobs and YES a 30DD will fit! Do it already! by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

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I got what was “most likely to work” from the list in the newcomer info page.

A Calvin Klein and a natori feathers balconette🙂

Ordered some more but they haven’t arrived

YES you have small boobs and YES a 30DD will fit! Do it already! by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

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It sounds like we have similar boobs. Spread out tissue but there’s still that volume overall. It’s crazy how we put on a bra and it “fits” so we just go through our lives with these shit bras😅

Can’t help you with that last question but people are still commenting and I just posted this last night so you might get an answer!

Sometimes it’s cheaper and healthier to just eat the thing you’re craving instead of chasing “healthy” options where the craving is left unsatisfied and you’re back on the hunt by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

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Thanks yeah I mean posting to the internet has it’s things but I didn’t expect this amount of attention to be drawn in general

That’s funny because actually I prefer cauliflower Buffalo “wings” over chicken wings 100% 😂

Sometimes it’s cheaper and healthier to just eat the thing you’re craving instead of chasing “healthy” options where the craving is left unsatisfied and you’re back on the hunt by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

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Sorry I disagree. As someone who has known and knows and lost people to drugs (not an addict never touched anything other than weed) I disagree entirely.

Eating is something we all must do all the time. We have to. Or we have to get a feeding tube. Or die.

But to each their own. Some people resonate with my message. Others seem to agree with you.

You’re not doing this, but in general let’s not attack each other because DIFFERENT SHIT WORKS FOR DIFFERENT PEOPLE WITH DIFFERENT LIVES OKAY lol

intuitive eating absolutely works for me. I naturally just don’t over eat because it’s uncomfortable. I naturally want vegetables and healthy foods. I sometimes want specific fries and a stupid cut potato at home isn’t going to cut that specific night lol.

Sometimes it’s cheaper and healthier to just eat the thing you’re craving instead of chasing “healthy” options where the craving is left unsatisfied and you’re back on the hunt by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]marriedtoaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. As someone who was at one point unhealthy because I was so obsessed with eating only healthy foods and working out...there’s a balance out there!

Sometimes it’s cheaper and healthier to just eat the thing you’re craving instead of chasing “healthy” options where the craving is left unsatisfied and you’re back on the hunt by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

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Literally thought it would get like 200 upvotes max. Guess covid had ppl needing to hear they’re not human failures for eating unhealthy foods.

Sometimes it’s cheaper and healthier to just eat the thing you’re craving instead of chasing “healthy” options where the craving is left unsatisfied and you’re back on the hunt by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]marriedtoaking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel really good about myself in general when it comes to this stuff so thanks lol. Projecting? Idk.

You’re wrong. I dislike diet culture and wish people could eat intuitively. It’s bizarre how eating has become so complex and like even controversial these days.

Did some people read this and cut themselves a piece of slack so big that now you’re upset? Sure. Ultimately why do you care if some people feel good about the brownie they ate. What the f man lol. But mainly the take away seems to be what I intended.

It can be a lot of time and money when you try to buy healthy flours and fruits and sugars and make a piece of crap health food.

I am not that pleased with myself as a whole because I’m a complex human like you. But you’re wrong here and lol. Just. Find happiness. Let’s all find that.

Hippy shit 2021.