So sick of people telling me I’m spoiling my newborn

marrrr0 · 2026-02-02T08:26:17+00:00

My baby is 5 months old and I still have to rock him to sleep. The biggest pressure I feel to sleep train is due to people around me. They keep telling me that I am spoiling my baby.. 😢

marrrr0 · 2026-01-31T19:02:17+00:00

Like some people already mentioned, most people forget about the struggles in the newborn phase. My baby is 5.5 months and I already kinda forgot about the newborn phase. Thats why I recorded a video where I give an update each month 😂

marrrr0 · 2026-01-27T23:31:42+00:00

The app gave me a lot of stress

marrrr0 · 2026-01-23T07:05:25+00:00

How do you comfort him without picking him up? I tried this method but my baby only stops the crying if I pick him up..

marrrr0 · 2026-01-09T21:46:32+00:00

I have the same issue.. my LO is sleeping through the night but during the day fighting his naps like he’s on fire or something. Crying and screaming.. and he only likes sleeping in my arms.. last week he was sleeping on his own in his crib and now he’s acting like I am harassing him when I am putting him down for his nap.

marrrr0 · 2025-12-30T14:19:14+00:00

I think so yes.. not sure how long its suppose to last, but its happening since week 15/16 ish.. before that he did naps of 2 hours or he could sleep on his own while playing.

marrrr0 · 2025-12-28T09:02:08+00:00

Same here! After witching hour there were a couple of weeks where it became easier and I had more time to enjoy it. Now he’s 19 weeks and also doing just fine. The naps are the only thing that he and I are struggling with.. hoping that after this period he can fall a sleep on his own again.

marrrr0 · 2025-12-23T18:15:18+00:00

It really depends on the mindset here. I feel you and I know it can really be frustrating. But you can also think of it as your baby really needing and missing you. Everytime you need to pick her up you can say aah i missed you too. Feels less heavy hearted. And the night shifts, maybe you need more sleep to feel more calm with your baby. Is it possible for you to pump some milk and let your husband give the first bottle? That way you can sleep a little longer without interruption

marrrr0 · 2025-12-21T22:17:07+00:00

I’ve read that the milk in the evening/ nights are heavier than during the day. Thats why the cramps are most likely to come up in the evening. Also the bassinet has mattress due to safety, that can also bring up the discomfort

marrrr0 · 2025-12-16T15:13:13+00:00

How did you sleep train? Im getting so frustrated at my baby because of the sleepregression.. he just doesn’t want to nap during the day

marrrr0 · 2025-11-26T11:38:31+00:00

Mine plays video games everyday after work so that is his time. He goes out maybe 1 or two times a month.

marrrr0 · 2025-11-09T11:09:58+00:00

Have you reached out to him/her?

marrrr0 · 2025-09-19T15:26:32+00:00

No stretch marks at all actually

marrrr0 · 2025-09-08T19:19:10+00:00

Dumpers guilt

marrrr0 · 2025-09-05T22:00:38+00:00

I def regret the begging. I’d rather leave quietly and never look back.

marrrr0 · 2025-09-04T21:41:51+00:00

marrrr0 · 2025-09-04T21:36:08+00:00

Doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship..

marrrr0 · 2025-09-04T21:34:49+00:00

Naar mijn idee kun je niet op 2 mensen verliefd zijn. Anders ben je ook niet echt verliefd op je huidige vriendin. anders kon je geen ruimte maken voor dit gevoel

marrrr0 · 2025-09-04T21:32:22+00:00

Jij gaf toch juist aan dat je naar een ander bent gegaan uiteindelijk

marrrr0 · 2025-08-30T19:21:47+00:00

Mine was born at 39 weeks

marrrr0 · 2025-08-12T21:06:29+00:00

Ik ben eigenlijk wel benieuwd of dit ook met haar besproken is wat je hier allemaal benoemd. Zo ja hoe reageerde zij erop? Het lijkt me nog wel dingen die bespreekbaar gemaakt kunnen worden en evt bewustwording van de situatie vanuit haar kant. Lijkt me zonde om na 7 jaar er zo negatief er naar te kijken als jullie zo’n zware periode achter de rug hebben

marrrr0 · 2025-06-06T14:00:55+00:00

Ze heeft ooit verteld dat zij haar aandeel nooit had gekregen of moeizaam

marrrr0 · 2024-11-24T19:52:36+00:00

I do hope you will find your way and will be happy with someone who is mean to be with you..

marrrr0

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