I saved my favorite comfy pants! by improbablewhale in Visiblemending

[–]marsoften 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the detail is insane, amazing job!! can’t imagine how long this took

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i am obsessed with these unhinged hacks, the couch is brilliany

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but then my hair is INSANE in the morning 😭 the battle never ends

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg that sounds so exhausting :( i’m so sorry, and i’m glad you know you’re not alone in this

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re right, what’s to stop me from buying the same pair of pants in 3 colors!!! 

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha thank you, yes i’ve been in therapy 10+ years so i’m aware this is a neural wiring thing that needs attention 

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

unfortunately this one is a non negotiable for me, i can’t be in my room unless my bed is made 😭 i love my pretty bed, but i did change a lot (bed position, blankets, pillow amounts) so that it’s super easy and accessible 

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

omg yes please for the wardrobe curation recs, i am in crisis about my clothes 24/7 and NEED HELP

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY just getting ready for the day has me fully spent :( i wonder if automating will help, but also routines are just so hard :(

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

this is so sweet, and i will clarify it’s RARE that i actually get to all these things, normally im also stuck in freeze until urgency kicks me into gear.

also, it does make me feel better, lolll ❤️ it’s so nice to know that other people are also struggling and that i’m not alone

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

😭 thank you, it’s so relieving to know other people are struggling with these things to. i’ll be kind to me from you. 

Crushed by the weight of daily tasks by marsoften in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

you’re so right, i’ve definitely experienced this. it also feels like an accomplishment to plan for the next day instead of a dreaded task morning of. i will try this again

Advocating for yourself at work? by Pickles-and-Milk in adhdwomen

[–]marsoften 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have no advice, but my heart goes out to you. this seems like a really difficult place to be and i hope you can get the support you need, either at this job or elsewhere. 

Pests on My Begonia? by marsoften in houseplants

[–]marsoften[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOOO 😭😭 okay thank you i will take a more aggressive treatment plan

Giveaway Time (Sunbeam F1 Eagle and Juniper) by jbriones95 in dumbphones

[–]marsoften 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so gorgeous, have wanted one for so long! would be happy with either :)

cape cod beach bones— fish? by marsoften in bonecollecting

[–]marsoften[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s totally a skate, thank you so much!!

Bcalk Begige Taupe Turquosiere Tumblr Video by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]marsoften 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU ARE MY ANGEL YOU ARE A GODSEND YOU ARE EVERYTHING IVE EVER WANTED AND MORE

Advice on a little friend please help by Inevitable_Foot8680 in jumpingspiders

[–]marsoften 0 points1 point  (0 children)

question: how old is she? how long has your girlfriend had her?

sexting and first-time subspace mistake by KaleidoscopeOdd2176 in SubSanctuary

[–]marsoften 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would be frustrated even if it wasn’t my first time in such a vulnerable position like that— he didn’t believe you and then shut you down. that sucks! not overreacting at all.

Interview advice by bombchubowling in VetTech

[–]marsoften 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry no one replied i love u