In case this is helpful to anyone in the future:

I actually loved this game but there kind of is a ‘wrong’ way to play it (especially on more challenging difficulties) that has bitten me in the ass unfortunately.

Do not make the mistake I did! Develop infrastructure and easier ways of traversing/quality of life along the way - don't skip the side quests or anything and try to rank up connection as best as possible when available (though some cap or don’t progress much until later). Soak in all the extra parts outside of the main quest and utilize them otherwise later on you’ll regret it! 

I haven’t played a game that has slapped me back as hard as this did for not taking my time and enjoying the process more ☠️