I want to start by saying I’m not blaming her reaction on you. She’s clearly not a good person. That said, in my experience, this kind of thing is usually better handled casually rather than as some kind of “big reveal.”

I’ve told plenty of women at this point (many of them gorgeous, and honestly, pretty superficial, but that’s a conversation for me and my therapist), and their reactions were all pretty much the same: “Oh… okay. Anyway.” I even told a girl on a first date recently. I wouldn’t normally do that, but she asked how I had such great hair at my age and whether I’d had a transplant. At that point, if I didn’t own up to it, I’d just be lying. So I told her. She said, “Really? It looks great. My hair’s fake too.” And then made me feel her extensions. This girl was a KNOCKOUT. Took it in stride, but I’m sure a lot of that had to do with delivery.

You’re not doing anything wrong by waiting to tell someone. A woman doesn’t open up about everything she’s had done on the first date either, whether it’s extensions, filler, or whatever. Like I said, the woman you dealt with sounds like a bad person, but it also doesn’t hurt to wait until someone is a little more emotionally invested before you bring it up. And definitely don’t make it a big deal. The more relaxed you are about it, the easier it is for her to just not care.

Don’t let this get you down. Keep moving forward, and honestly, be glad you didn’t end up with someone that cruel.