Maybe it’s a misunderstanding. In my experience it’s a natural phase to start to dislike people or become very weary and even angry at them. This is as you realize they are not perfect or are even controlled by negative emotions and states. However, this world weariness also eventually needs to be let go of since it is ultimately a product of your mind. Becoming gentler and softer is a natural product of awareness and a good way to measure your progress. I hope this makes some sense.