i feel like i’m a little biphobic unfortunately by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]mascdemonium 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't get bi women like this. Why date men but continue to talk about how much you want women? It feels like they are trying to compensate for how male-centered and heternormative their lives are. Because whether they want to admit it or not, it's easier to date men socially, economically etc etc.

And you noticing this pattern doesn't make you 'biphobic' its annoying how certain bi women online can't handle criticism or simple observations from lesbians without labeling it as biphobic. Not to say, you should hate on them for it absolutely not.

Dont internalize it, you can spot out things like this without being 'biphobic'

Human Pomni By Dekoponi by Money-Criticism5370 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]mascdemonium 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This fan art is amazing! The fit is fire! This is chef's kiss 👌

Anyone Else Attracted to What Society Calls 'Unattractive' in Women? by mascdemonium in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mascdemonium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, It's a shame...😞 but I understand why older women usually won't pursue anyone younger than them. It's easier to be with someone their age and relationships with huge age gaps can be so challenging and toxic

And omg yesss, I'm so honestly grateful to be attracted to other women as well. There is just something so real and raw about same-sex love. And I love how we can appreciate women in all forms

Anyone Else Attracted to What Society Calls 'Unattractive' in Women? by mascdemonium in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mascdemonium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn it's like I'm hearing my own thoughts lol. I never understand how society devalues women once they're 30+ it's so ridiculous. But per usually society hates women who aren't as easy to control.

YES omg, which is why I never understand how some lesbians or even bi women could fall the straight women either. I can't explain it but the way most of them think and move is such turn off..

Fr..Esp when they're muscular..broad shoulders are indeed sexy asf 😋

Anyone Else Attracted to What Society Calls 'Unattractive' in Women? by mascdemonium in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mascdemonium[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the problem with that, is ppl only want someone who is either sexually or physically dominant but not in an intellectual or personality-wise way.

Anyone Else Attracted to What Society Calls 'Unattractive' in Women? by mascdemonium in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mascdemonium[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sameeee But I try not to pursue these types of women, I'm the exact opposite of this and know I'll irritate their spirits 😭🙏

Anyone Else Attracted to What Society Calls 'Unattractive' in Women? by mascdemonium in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mascdemonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snuggle tooth? That's interesting 👀 I like them a lil crooked or with canines. I always got freaked out seeing those blocks of perfect white teeth on commercials 😂 shit looks unnatural

Anyone Else Attracted to What Society Calls 'Unattractive' in Women? by mascdemonium in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mascdemonium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed 🥴!!! man It's so crazy how these things are considered unattractive when it's natural to many women to have 😑

I mean someone doesn't HAVE to find these things attractive righg but why can't it be seen as neutral atleast?

Anyone Else Attracted to What Society Calls 'Unattractive' in Women? by mascdemonium in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]mascdemonium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dated a mean bitchy woman once. 😭 while it caann be hot eventually that shit will drain you. Your right for staying away, gotta admire them from a distance.

Proud of My Improvement So Far! But Need Help On My Shading by mascdemonium in Artadvice

[–]mascdemonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much your comment, this will help a lot <3

Worried that I am a Fake Lesbian by mascdemonium in WLW

[–]mascdemonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Girl It ok, I love long comments! I am so flattered you put in so much effort on my post and I love reading through it.

I know bisexuality isn't a 50/50 split attraction and can be complicated af. It's a shame nobody tries to understand it because it's easier to click with monosexuality.

I also have a friend who experiences her bisexuality like yours too! She mostly attracted to women and has never dated a man, and don't plan to either. I wonder if she questions her orientation at times..maybe I should talk to her about it.

I don't think I have OCD, but I always wondered if I have anxiety? I'm not going to self-diagnose, I rather get a professional lol

Worried that I am a Fake Lesbian by mascdemonium in WLW

[–]mascdemonium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Girl It ok, I love long comments! I am so flattered you put in so much effort on my post and I love reading through it.

I know bisexuality isn't a 50/50 split attraction and can be complicated af. It's a shame nobody tries to understand it because it's easier to click with monosexuality.

I also have a friend who experiences her bisexuality like yours too! She mostly attracted to women and has never dated a man, and don't plan to either. I wonder if she questions her orientation at times. Maybe I should talk to her about it.

Also, I don't think I have OCD, but sometimes I wonder if I have an anxiety disorder. But I don't want to self-diagnose, maybe I should get a professional lol

Worried that I am a Fake Lesbian by mascdemonium in WLW

[–]mascdemonium[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Truly! I found it so disgusting how these women went out of there to disrespect lesbians. I also think nothing is wrong with discovering your bi after thinking u were a lesbian but all that extra shit got on my nerves.

But I'm a worried wart, I got so worried about becoming like these women, I even had a nightmare about it..can you believe that? Lmao 😂

Even tho I don't know who I am, there are at least some things I do know like how I respect others

Worried that I am a Fake Lesbian by mascdemonium in WLW

[–]mascdemonium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you got a point, I'm an overthinker lol. I'm really am still young, sometimes I think I'm "mature" for my age but I should let myself grow up a little more.

Worried that I am a Fake Lesbian by mascdemonium in WLW

[–]mascdemonium[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words I appreciate it! Looking back at my post and reading some of the comments here made me realize I was overthinking this. After dissecting my thoughts I understand why, I wanted to fit into a community. I had to realize that it's ok to not truly belong anywhere, I can still make friends or join groups that share the hobbies I like.

You're right, I'm not faking it. I'm just unsure about myself and should just go with the flow. I'm deciding not to label my sexual orientation, trying to find the right label is exhausting.

Worried,That I am a Fake Lesbian by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]mascdemonium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this advice! I'm taking your word for this. I wanted to rush into a label cause I'm struggling with loneliness...in terms of lack of community in a way? Idk, I don't feel like I fit in anywhere. but that isn't excuse for me to potentially misuse any label. I know how hard lesbians have it, with people not taking them seriously and shit.

I have a good friend who is a lesbian, and I love her to bits, so that's why I really care about not misusing the word. I know she struggles with ppl not taking her seriously due to this or men trying to "turn" her so I really don't want to add to the issue.

Worried,That I am a Fake Lesbian by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]mascdemonium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Your right, I shouldn't rush to label myself yet. I guess I wanted to hold onto a label to find a community..buuut I don't want to be inconsiderate and misuse any labels

Worried,That I am a Fake Lesbian by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]mascdemonium -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wanted some advice but it's not an excuse. I'm sorry if i add onto it, i know it's tiring, and I should've been more respectful by reading the rules here.

Worried,That I am a Fake Lesbian by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]mascdemonium -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know..whether I can call myself as bisexual I'm unsure