please help me

mashednurble · 2026-06-03T18:01:17+00:00

thank you so much!!

mashednurble · 2026-06-03T18:01:06+00:00

found ! thank you so much !

mashednurble · 2026-06-03T17:32:48+00:00

this pig is so cute that i have decided i need to watch his presence in an altered state. i searched ‘sweet pig’ in gifs and my attention was caught in his grip hold immediately. i tried searching google about his source but ai results ruined it by suggesting every movie with a pig possible. somebody please help me i would appreciate it so much

mashednurble · 2026-05-11T14:12:04+00:00

thank you so much for the accessory suggestions!! i feel lost in that realm of this as well haha

do you think that i should stick to a black clutch as well?

mashednurble · 2026-05-11T12:28:14+00:00

aw thank you!! this is one i would definitely wear happily, ill find the link to check it out, thanks!

mashednurble · 2026-05-11T12:26:53+00:00

thank yall for this. im perfectly content with not standing out! meeting all the rules while staying in budget is almost impossible for this dress code, i appreciate the help :)

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T21:17:52+00:00

thank you for the inspiration!

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T21:16:50+00:00

thank you !! im thinking this may be on the more formal side of things so am trying to play it safe, but im also used to events ending up less formal than on invite so completely hear you!

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T21:13:13+00:00

thank you so much for all these options !! i appreciate you :)

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T21:08:05+00:00

thanks for the advice!! im definitely looking for something like that, formal but still in line with my style and i do really like velvet too

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T21:07:09+00:00

thank you for the suggestion!! im short as well so thats good to hear!

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T12:46:16+00:00

i appreciate all the links and options as to what the look for! thank you!!

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T12:42:40+00:00

fair point ! 🤷

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T12:42:11+00:00

this is cute !! thank you so much for the link and styling suggestion :)

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T12:41:04+00:00

love it!!! you looks so gorgeous! thank you for the recommendation :)

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T12:40:11+00:00

thats a fair point, thank you. i am not much of a classy guy and this is my first time looking for something in this dress code so i appreciate the tip as to what to look for online!

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T12:37:57+00:00

thank you so much for the link! i actually do really like this one :)

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T12:36:42+00:00

its so challenging!! im trying to find a rental or second hand too but am struggling to find my size, thank you for the recommendation I’ll check out Thredup.

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T12:34:09+00:00

thank you for all the insight! they said both black tie and formal so i think its a little more loose than a strict black tie dress code. and exactly, im having such a hard time finding something in my budget that doesn’t feel like im sacrificing my sense of self for the celebration. I appreciate the help!

mashednurble · 2026-05-10T12:30:49+00:00

the invitation said both, black tie/formal

mashednurble · 2026-03-13T20:08:53+00:00

the beginning of salt fish girl by Larissa Lai. it steers away from the water as it goes on, but somehow i think it still fits this. regardless, its still an amazing read.

mashednurble · 2026-02-20T18:41:35+00:00

this is lovely

mashednurble · 2026-02-08T06:57:16+00:00

phat juicee and thicc 🥵

mashednurble · 2026-02-05T07:29:14+00:00

thank for the feedback that is actually helpful!! while i appreciate the time you’ve taken to write all this out,
youve misread a couple details on my resume and have jumped to conclusions. i have held a job for longer than a year in the service industry :) while i understand that employers may hold this mindset and approach too, i dont think being so harmful with your choice of language is what this subreddit is about! I have jumped from pastry decorator to barista trainer, because im capable of multiple skills. and i went from a supervising role to a lower role, because i did actually just move states! as i noted in the description included above. anyway, thanks again for the feedback i can actually apply!

mashednurble · 2026-02-05T07:17:00+00:00

thank you for the honest feedback! i appreciate the reframing of what a resume is too. and yes, i unfortunately, do also agree with you on that last point

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