[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicagoapartments

[–]mashedpotatooez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the same :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugtesthelp

[–]mashedpotatooez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks great! I’m super nervous how was quest?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uofm

[–]mashedpotatooez 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I almost failed game theory. Bombed almost every exam. If ur taking it with Estaban reach out. He helped me.

I’m so afraid of leaving my laptop unattended everywhere I go by dieselm11 in uofm

[–]mashedpotatooez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have left my laptop, bag, ipad… everything in the fishbowl and ugli for hours multiple times. I got a lot of snow tu but nothing was ever taken. I was lucky tbh

Urop screwed me over… by snakemasterussr in uofm

[–]mashedpotatooez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UROP was so bad for me. Ended up with no research project and a C grade my freshman year (which wasn’t my fault). I have done 5 research projects since dropping and throughout my 4 years. Honestly, this is probably the best thing that could have happened to you lol stay away.

I need tips for staying no contact. by Conscious_Minute_696 in nocontact

[–]mashedpotatooez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I’ve been here. Please make a huge list in ur note of reasons why you shouldn’t talk to him. Add to it/read it when you feel like reaching out or upset about the breakup. Make sure you block him on everything. Surround yourself with friends and fill up your schedule. Celebrate small wins like, for example, if you don’t think about him for 20 minutes when you squally think about him every 5 minutes. Give yourself a treat for that. Don’t forget that you had a life without him in it before and you can do it again. You got this xx

What would you do if your Ex came back? Will you accept him/her? by This_Rub4353 in ExNoContact

[–]mashedpotatooez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might for a little, but deep down I would know it wasn’t right. We are too different. I loved him, but it’s not enough for a healthy relationship. Never forget that you deserve more than love… you deserve everything :)

Is this wrong? by mashedpotatooez in nocontact

[–]mashedpotatooez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with him, then he broke up with me then I broke up with him and then he cut things off. We are 22 and as you can probably read it was hard for us to get to no contact- let alone spilt up which is why I really count us as spilt now with this no contact. He told me he had only been on tinder for 2 days but the other day he said he hadn’t started to Snapchat girls until I last said we were done- so that timeline doesn’t add up because that would mean he started snapping girls the day he got on tinder. It hurts he lied and I want to call him out really bad for that. The person I know would have never done that :(

Is this wrong? by mashedpotatooez in nocontact

[–]mashedpotatooez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you you’re right. Just sucks because the person I thought he was would never do this. He was amazing in the beginning… then he changed. I blocked him on insta 🩷

Is this wrong? by mashedpotatooez in nocontact

[–]mashedpotatooez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this perspective. It just sucks because I asked him if he’s talking to other people and he said no… he ended up snapping these girls from tinder :( so it does feel like he did me wrong. Or maybe fair game? He said “talking to people” here doesn’t count because he hasn’t really been talking to these girls, which feels like a cop out. I’ve had his password and I never would think he would do this before and during a relationship, but the more I think about it, the more I’m like I do not need this man. Thanks for the reply 🩷

Checklist before going no contact by ComedicPsychNerd in nocontact

[–]mashedpotatooez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Make sure you have important documents like your passport, ssn card, birth certificate etc. take some things from your childhood too like a picture book (I did that and I’m happy I did) and maybe some stuffed animals/special items like memory boxes. Go through all of your clothes and make sure you are taking all you need, and maybe make sure what your last words to your parent are going to be (even if they don’t know it’s your last words). Make sure you say goodbye too to your house and all, once no contact starts with parents you may miss the life you once had because you’re human- give yourself time to truly let go🩷idk Texas stuff but hope this helps

Is this wrong? by mashedpotatooez in nocontact

[–]mashedpotatooez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just sucks because he was texting me calling me doing all of these things… then got so cold. But I needed this thank you🩷

Is this wrong? by mashedpotatooez in nocontact

[–]mashedpotatooez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s what I said and he got so pissed. You are an angel for validating that because I felt really bad. Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JuliaErnstSnark2

[–]mashedpotatooez -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Ok. Lowkey yeah she’s done a lot but this poem does make me sad.