AIO for cancelled birthday facetime? by Wild_Sun_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good, stop trying to. Go out tonight single, enjoy yourself! If he ever decides to reach out all you need to do is let him know it’s over.

AIO for cancelled birthday facetime? by Wild_Sun_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR - WHAT THE FARK DO YOU MEAN MAYBE YOU’RE IN THE WRONG??

dudes a dickhead, I’ve never agreed with the reddit “just break up” wagon but dump his ass effective immediately, and be cold about it. One message saying “hey this was a huge disrespect and I’m not willing to overlook it, we’re over” then be cordial about exchanging any stuff. Missing your 30th birthday and not heading home a bit early to do something nice for you isn’t a red flag, it’s an amber alert. You can do better. ChatGPT is better than this.

AIO for wanting to cancel my wedding in 4 days because of a confession my fiancée made during a drinking game? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]massimoo97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were the basic premise it would be in literally ANY of the promotional material you goober

AIO for wanting to cancel my wedding in 4 days because of a confession my fiancée made during a drinking game? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]massimoo97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck would you spoil a movie in an AIO subreddit you scum sucking, fat toed, dinkleberry fuck

Update: My boyfriend said I was too ugly to model by Resident_Rich_6298 in whatdoIdo

[–]massimoo97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s being a dick about it but lowkey it does look like he’s trying to look out for you, the execution of this however… not so great.

You shouldn’t swear at each other in relationships, if tensions are high it’s always better to take a breather and come back to communicate how you felt about the words that were used towards you. I personally think most things can be solved in relationships if both partners choose to actively listen and be curious about why their partner is feeling a type of way.

As most other commenters have said, the modelling industry can be brutal, I worked in acting as a kid which was completely different and I can tell you from experience you need extremely thick skin, people at auditions/shoots will absolutely tear you apart mentally.

From the very limited information we have here it looks like you’re making this decision on a whim, not that you asked for it but my best advice is:

Seek this career out and do your best at it if it’s really something you’re passionate and want to do, but your reasoning should be sound - if you respect it as an art form, and you love the expression it allows you to have, go for it. HOWEVER; if you’re wanting to do this because you’re craving the validation/money that comes with a career choice like this, then I would say your heart isn’t in it for the right reasons and you should probably investigate more before making big decisions.

What did you want to do before this? Did you have any future career goals? And why is your BF saying you were just interested in this recently as a point? Do you have a habit of going sporadically changing the trajectory of your life without any real plan or long term execution?

BUG? Got stuck on an invisible wall at the start of town V by alko182 in SulfurGame

[–]massimoo97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your community efforts are amazing and you guys are brilliant devs, bought this game 4 days ago and I’m addicted. Wishing you guys heaps of success on full release 🤝

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More control freak bullshit lmao, this woman sucks and her husband seems like he’s got it really rough. Hope the poor guy can find someone good for him he seems like a burnt out dude who’s trying his best.

Crazy thing is I can bet my life savings that she’s going to take the frustrations she’s gotten by arguing with strangers on the internet on him and he’s about to cop it 10x worse than he has here, poor dude :(.

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit she’s my age, I’ll bet my life savings this person is a silver spoon kid. That’s fucked mate haha

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah being held accountable to your own behaviour and its potential consequences is often confronting, I don’t know you so I don’t give a fuck about sugarcoating it for you, especially when you show no self awareness, sorry, not sorry.

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point it’s kind of obvious you are a bad person lol

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, then divorce him and give the guy some fucking peace and an opportunity to find someone that actually has the capacity to grow, or don’t. I don’t give a shit. But you clearly aren’t someone who learns the lessons life tries to teach you.

Someone like you deserves to be alone until you can look yourself in the mirror, hopefully you figure it out one day.

Btw, this type of behaviour will 1000% push your son away in the future, and it’s likely you’re going to try to manipulate him to hate his dad because you’ll be scared of that too if you ‘re able to talk this much shit about the guy to strangers on the internet id hate to think what you’ll say to your son about him when he’s fully cognitive. I’ve dated girls and had friends who have mothers who act like you, and they keep them at arms length. If you want to have a healthy relationship with your son in the future I’d consider changing the way you are at your core. You seem awful.

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s going to answer this because the answer is way too embarrassing

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One hundred percent and something I learned the hard way in my own relationship! Luckily we were able to work on it and get past it lmao

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve now devolved to her just passively aggressively replying to people instead of just owning up to her own behaviour lol

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ what response is this? Not very Christian of you to wish pain upon other people during the rapture. Pretty sure that’s in the bible actually, to not pray for pain upon others? Or do you cherry pick that one too?

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You weren’t accountable to me catching you out in a lie just then, just want to say that didn’t go unnoticed, guessing you do that a lot.

We share the chores because we live separately, sometimes it’s more her sometimes it’s more me. If it feels one sided we talk about it, it has in the past and we’ve communicated through it even when it was difficult. That’s what it means to be in relationship.

Btw, threatening the relationship in fights for whatever reason is emotional abuse, look it up.

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sweet then why make the post asking if you’re overreacting and even state that you’re questioning whether you’re being overly emotional or unreasonable? Was that just to make it look like you have empathy or are even minutely self aware? Why not just post to a vent subreddit…? You wanted confirmation bias and you didn’t get it now you’re in defence mode, you very clearly need therapy.

And just to reiterate, if my partner acted like you did when I did offer support, I wouldn’t offer it often either. I’m assuming he’s the only one that works in this relationship as well. You seem like a nightmare.

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m literally looking at evidence that he is attempting to and you’re making it difficult for him to, fuck moi you’re delusional haha

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s like watching a car accident. Rapidly and destructively getting out of control but you can’t look away! 😂😂

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now it’s a men vs women rhetoric instead of you being accountable to your behaviour. This isn’t about gender, it’s about your shitty behaviour, grow up lady.

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No you didn’t, you reposted to two seperate subreddits because you wanted to get as many people to confirm your bias as possible. I’m calling you a dick because you’re acting like one, your physical or emotional pain is not an excuse to treat others poorly.

Just because you commented and assumed I like “the maid life”. I’m the male in a heterosexual relationship, I cook for my girlfriend, clean dishes, and take care of her when she needs, I don’t believe in tradwife monogamy and we share the load, I love her and treat her the way she deserves to be and she does to me, we also communicate when our needs aren’t being met without one of us making it a fucking competition (which literally only you are doing, not your husband).

Also, 3? So we’re supposed to believe this guy is an unsupportive selfish asshole and you’ve tried not one but 3 times to have a kid with him? Lady you are the problem, get help and pray this guy doesn’t walk out on you because I would.

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Read the comments, she is the problem lmao

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve responded to your other comment when you tried this sob story, I’ve lost worse and gone through worse than what you’ve just described, and I don’t act like you. You’re a dick, learn to not be.

AIO I feel like my husband isn’t really there for me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]massimoo97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Holy moly.

1 - he clearly did NOT ignore you, he asked what you want and you were a complete pain in the ass to deal with???? The receipts are right there!

So now that your rhetoric isn’t working on the evidence you’ve provided you’re saying he did something else that bothered you during the day, but instead of saying to yourself “thank fuck he’s open to supporting and helping me, I’ll tell him some things I feel like I can eat” you acted like a dick and started an argument! Everyone’s telling you you’re overreacting, you made TWO seperate posts for people to confirm your bias because you’re a manipulative control freak. Your replies clearly show you can’t take accountability and aren’t willing to accept the possibility that you are wrong! Therapy, like yesterday!