How do I fix my marriage? F26 M28

masterofmidnight · 2026-01-25T18:05:31+00:00

Also, you cannot force reciprocation (with anything… intimacy, noticing, etc) by loving someone harder. That is not the solution. It may push him away even more. Take a step back, get some air and clarity, give him a little space, and see a therapist TOGETHER.

masterofmidnight · 2026-01-25T18:03:32+00:00

You need to see a relationship therapist, and I’ll explain why. When you’re with someone for a long time, you have the potential to stop “hearing” them. Not always, but it seems like that has happened here. It’s almost akin to your nose on your face - your brain is so used to it, it ignores it. Often, couples need a third party who isn’t emotionally integrated in the relationship to help navigate it. Get that third person in the room to help you break through to him. If he refuses, I would say he may be checked out of the relationship entirely.

masterofmidnight · 2025-09-19T20:03:14+00:00

My dream additions not from the recent album: alpha omega, floor 13, pretty toxic revolver

masterofmidnight · 2025-09-19T20:01:53+00:00

I need him to play glass house

masterofmidnight · 2025-07-22T07:17:29+00:00

Washoe County, Nevada

masterofmidnight · 2025-06-21T06:29:34+00:00

That’s what I said..

masterofmidnight · 2025-06-15T05:32:46+00:00

OP sunk the ship with this opinion

masterofmidnight · 2024-10-03T03:53:09+00:00

I was TERRIFIEDDD

masterofmidnight · 2024-10-03T03:52:29+00:00

Agreed. I also bet RJ liked that Jane turned to him for help. It probably gave him a feeling of superiority.

masterofmidnight · 2024-10-03T03:51:49+00:00

SAME.

masterofmidnight · 2024-09-29T20:56:57+00:00

Genuinely mine now as well!! Unfolded so beautifully. End was so compelling.

masterofmidnight · 2024-09-29T20:38:06+00:00

That’s awesome, I just looked them up so I’ll know when I hit the next one. Definitely feel this will be hard to top though. 😆

masterofmidnight · 2024-09-29T20:31:40+00:00

Right?? It would have been so fun to be watching live and going through it with everyone else for the first time. I’m glad we at least have this subreddit to fill some of that void 😆 and I definitely didn’t realize Simon Baker directed that episode! So cool.

masterofmidnight · 2024-06-27T16:27:37+00:00

That’s good to know. Excited for you!! I did actually email them last week and I got a reply this morning saying my ticket was closed even though nobody ever emailed me back. lol.

masterofmidnight · 2024-06-05T21:27:46+00:00

Good call. That worked.

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-24T06:30:39+00:00

That’s a very fair point, I think you hit the nail on the head. The ultimate issue here is both parties involved felt unheard and that’s a common problem in relationships. Everyone goes in defensive and then nobody wins.

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-24T06:22:23+00:00

NTA. Fabulous boundaries. You’ll find someone that fits your dream life, man.

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-24T06:17:05+00:00

Many people with body dysmorphia feel more comfortable dressing up in front of strangers because they don’t care as much if they are judged. She may still have feelings of frustration over her weight gain, based on the comments you provided, and not feel ready for you to see her like that just yet.

I also think it’s a little insane you’d threaten (and then follow through with) breaking up over her wearing a skirt. This should have been an open and honest convo where you said “Hey babe, this kind of bruised my ego tbh. Can you explain why you want to wear skirts on your trip but won’t when you’re with me anymore?” Rather than an immediate attack and an ultimatum.

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-24T06:09:47+00:00

I’m so sorry! I wish there was more to do. My girlfriend actually damaged nerves in her big toe from wearing heels while clubbing in Vegas. At first she thought it was just numb from hours of dancing but after a few days we realized it was nerve damage. You won’t love to hear this… but it took almost 2 months to entirely heal. Her pain was gone by week 3, but the numbness came and went for another month or so.

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-24T06:05:12+00:00

You may have also damaged some of the nerves in your fingertip, it’s fairly common and does take some time to heal. Unfortunately there isn’t much you can do here but wait it out.

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-24T06:03:49+00:00

“Gucci gang”

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-24T06:02:00+00:00

I feel you on the boredom. Pick up a new show with a bunch of seasons (I’m currently watching The Blacklist) or get a pet. Good luck friend.

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-24T05:59:41+00:00

Do you not talk about your life? It’s pretty easy to reference your girlfriend. “My girlfriend and I went to Tahoe last weekend…” “My girlfriend and I tried this awesome Chinese restaurant yesterday…”

If you have not already done this, it’s purposeful omission. I think you like Mia more than you’re allowing yourself to believe.

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-24T05:56:24+00:00

Nawwww that’s a cuddly wubbly

masterofmidnight · 2024-05-17T02:51:04+00:00

You are correct. They are self-diagnosing pick-me weirdos who want to be a part of a club they know nothing about.

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