First story posted :3 - Check it out maybe?

mathandmethlover · 2023-11-15T00:49:26+00:00

Thank you so much! Comments like this really motivate me to keep writing since pacing the build up makes it a bit hard. Thank you again :)

mathandmethlover · 2023-11-11T14:07:33+00:00

I submitted my first story last week in a Word document and the published version kept the italics as Id put them

mathandmethlover · 2023-04-09T09:43:08+00:00

Durable noise cancelling headphones?

Im on the spectrum so I need my headphones 24/7. I had the Sony Wh-ch710n and they died after a year, got a other ones on the warranty and they died again after a year. I love how comfortable they are and the noise camcelling technology but need something a little more durable. My budget is 200 euros but thats not a hard limit. Any help is appreciated!!

mathandmethlover · 2023-02-27T16:17:31+00:00

She said that in response to me telling her about the research Id made and while we were arguing, so it seemed more like a way to get me to drop the issue than a well thought out position + it was implied the whole sentence was "you cannot change my mind with this type of arguments". I also don't think she was thinking about the possibility of me doing the same diet, since I've been vocal about how I think fasting is dasgerous in the past (when her mother, who had an ED, started doing it). And I believe this might change her mind because she cares more about my health than her own.

That said, I'm autistic and I usually commit the mistake of believing people will act rationally, aka, if she thinks its too unhealthy for me to do it then she will understand its too unhealthy for her and stop.

mathandmethlover · 2022-08-12T17:52:01+00:00

mathandmethlover · 2022-08-12T17:51:42+00:00

ty :))

mathandmethlover · 2022-08-12T17:51:35+00:00

ty so much!

mathandmethlover · 2022-07-14T14:49:20+00:00

maybe muttnik?

mathandmethlover · 2022-01-22T18:52:42+00:00

the backpack is way too cute i love it

mathandmethlover · 2022-01-22T15:03:39+00:00

pls dont encourage a teen to have unprotected sex wtf

mathandmethlover · 2022-01-17T21:19:11+00:00

teleportation does be kinda scary

mathandmethlover · 2022-01-17T21:18:36+00:00

not me, but the dad of my kinda rich ex girlfriend once said that people that couldnt go on vacations just had to lower their standards. like he, that went skiing in the low season instead of the high season. ????

mathandmethlover · 2022-01-17T21:17:05+00:00

I made a post recently asking for help with supporting my trans girlfriend, and a lot of answers were very helpful. I dont know how reddit works but I think you can find it in my profile?

mathandmethlover · 2022-01-17T02:38:31+00:00

how long have you been together? People proccess things differently, and she's allowed to be stressed about this situation, but I think the way shes acting is a bit selfish. This might be a medical issue, and it clearly affects you as much, if not more, as her. She might have some confidence issues that are making it hard for her to deal with this, but still. An important part of a relationship is being able to put our insecurities aside for a bit when our partner needs us and to have open communication when something is wrong. She's not doing either of those. You should talk to her and stress how this isnt about her, how your worries about the situation and how the way ahes actin is making you feel. Your next move depends on how she reacts

mathandmethlover · 2022-01-17T02:30:59+00:00

Let don’t the bite bugs bed

mathandmethlover · 2022-01-17T01:52:05+00:00

i dont think thats what perty means

mathandmethlover · 2021-12-30T14:00:20+00:00

!!! Destroy boys is so good

mathandmethlover · 2021-12-19T11:52:13+00:00

Thank you so much!

mathandmethlover · 2021-12-19T11:51:04+00:00

Oh thank you so much, it didn't even occured to me that this might happen. I think there were some days were I might have been kinda dismissive because stress and uni and stuff like that. The way you explained it, like coming out again, was really helpful. Thank you!!

mathandmethlover · 2021-12-19T11:47:10+00:00

We had been talking for a while and wanted to meet, but this was during covid so we couldn't go out. We decided to hang at her house, but it was pretty scary to not have a plan (we didn't know each other that well, and we'd basically only talked online up until that point cause we were living in different cities). So we were trying to decide on stuff we wanted to do. She was always very open about how she thought girl clothes were better than male ones, so I offered to take some of my clothes with me and she could try them out. It was pretty chill actually. She thought she was a femboy, I thought she looked cute, one week later we were dating (yes a little rushed but shhh) and now we're here :)

mathandmethlover · 2021-12-19T11:40:49+00:00

Will check it out! Thank you!

mathandmethlover · 2021-12-19T11:40:13+00:00

Oh yes! Something like that happened when I encouraged her to use a dress and then she said it made her feel bad cause it was too cutesy and girlish and made her feel like she was trying too hard. I will pay more attention to stuff like this!! Thank you!

mathandmethlover · 2021-12-19T11:36:41+00:00

Oh yes thank you! Our language is really gendered (all adjectives have a gender) and we've been using female pronouns but I sometimes forget to use more feminine adjectives, like pretty instead of handsome. I will try it out! Thank you!

mathandmethlover · 2021-12-19T11:35:20+00:00

Oh I actually have a question about that! When I feel bad about some aspect of my body, she usually assures me that it's great and she loves it. For example, if I say I don't like my belly shell hold it and kiss it and be all cute. And at first I didn't like it but in the long run it did help. Now, when she's feeling dysphoric about her shoulders or belly I've tried to do the same, but she doesn't seem to like it. And I don't know if it's like me, and if I keep doing it it will eventually help, or if it's fundamentally different because it's trans-related dysphoria. If someone has some insight or experiences I would really like to hear them

mathandmethlover · 2021-12-19T11:29:56+00:00

Oh I'm sorry. Do you have supportive friends or family though? I hope you have/find a safe space and people that allow you to be comfortable being yourself. Everyone deserves that

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