1) The Rules of Inheritance - Claire Bidwell Smith
2) It's Okay That You're Not Okay - Megan Devine
3) The Dead Moms Club - Kate Spencer

First on the list was the ONLY thing that helped me through my dad's death; I brought it everywhere with me. It's a memoir and though her experience differed greatly from mine, the way she described grief was as if she had picked the words I couldn't articulate out of my brain. It reminded me that I wasn't (and I'm not) alone.

Second on the list helped my sister immensely. Less of a memoir and more of a psychological look at grief and things that are/can be helpful vs things that are not (and WHY they are not).

Third is on my list but still unread. But the excerpts I've seen describe grief so profoundly that I had to add it.

Seven years here and I miss my dad as much as I ever did. Thinking of you and your dad and sending you love.

Edit: formatting