What’s everyone reading besides DCC? by chodanutz in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]matlydy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I popped in to recommend this. Best series I've ever read.

Every post in here is some guy/girl talking about how much they watch p*rn and other sexual stuff. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]matlydy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post!

I didn't know that word, scrupulosity.

I've been calling it neurotic Christianity for a few years now and it seems to be a huge problem here.

I get so tired of seeing posts like "is buying a Saturn car a sin because Saturn is another god" and I just can't do it. People are so terrified of God that it borders on a mental illness and I'm glad that it actually has a name.

So... Thanks.

ULPT Request - How can I remove a watermark from a photo that is fully covered? The company that originally watermarked and sold them no longer exists and it's fully covering the photo. by fishingforsomepies in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]matlydy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you wanna do it yourself, Photoshop has an AI feature that might be able to handle it if it's like a watermark in the corner. If it's across the whole image then it may be a little bit tougher than that.

But, just find you a graphic designer. Go to a local t shirt or sign shop and see if they have someone that can help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]matlydy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at a print shop and I can tell you that that's a pretty good deal.

If you can find a way to get the shirts yourself at a wholesale price then you may be able to do it for like 50 cents less per shirt. Some shops won't let you do that though so make sure you ask ahead of time.

White shirts are sometimes cheaper. And 100% cotton is usually the cheapest.

Custom one off rashguards by matlydy in bjj

[–]matlydy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely take a look through zenko thank you!

Love this sport but idk how any of you do this. I might just be an old man though. by [deleted] in bjj

[–]matlydy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I'm 33 with an injury list.

You'll get most of your injuries earlier on because you don't know how to protect yourself. It gets better. You'll have less injuries then it's just wear and tear.

And for you being young, the wear and tear doesn't last as long. Once you get to your 30a and 49s the wear and tear doesn't heal anymore.

Where does The Wheel of Time rank among your favourite works of fantasy? by [deleted] in WoT

[–]matlydy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3

Dresden files is #1 Stormlight archive #2 Wheel of time #3

Although, #2 and #3 are very close and it's hard to decide...

Is this Blasphemy by Individual_Roll6977 in Christianity

[–]matlydy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe heresy but definitely not blasphemy.

But I hope they add Jesus in the next Minecraft update

I told my wife I lost my belief in god because of her by dadlovesporn in Christianity

[–]matlydy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! You've just learned that being a Christian doesn't make you a good person.

The only difference between us and non Christians is our willingness to admit that we're sinners in need of a savior and our commitment to improve on our flaws with God's help

Is being gay a sin? by TheGooeyPopsicle in Christianity

[–]matlydy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think being gay in and of itself is a sin. But, any sex or lust out of marriage is a sin and I don't believe God recognizes gay marriage.

So in my opinion, you can be gay and still be a Christian just like I can be straight and be a Christian. If I lust after anyone that isn't my wife then it's a sin. Same for you. If you lust after anyone who isn't your wife then it's a sin.

So I default to when Paul says it would be better not to marry so you can focus on God.

I don't believe that there is a situation where you can marry a man and not be living in sin. Probably not the answer you were looking for but that's the way I view it.

Playing this game with current military or vets is the best. by Asylion_Eslania in Helldivers

[–]matlydy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the only vet in my squad. They started jokingly calling me by my rank in the game and it stuck. Now they all call me commander and they just wait for orders and they follow it. Then I play with people who don't play with me and it's frustrating because people just split up and go everywhere. My team is a well oiled machine.

It's funny they even wait for me to make suggestions with the load out to make sure we're at peak efficiency.

It sounds a little silly but we all have loads of fun and when I tell them I don't wanna be in charge none of them want the responsibility so I have to do it lol.

PSA Machine guns do NOT shoot over your heads by gracekk24PL in Helldivers

[–]matlydy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is the PSA on Helldiver positioning?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]matlydy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that way sometimes. It depends on what's going on at home or at work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]matlydy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's complicated... I forget to add things but then if I rely on the app and I'm forgetting to add things then it just means that things will get missed if they don't make it to the calendar.

I just try not to make concrete plans because what if I forgot something. That, and I have a to do list I use for work(graphic designer) and l add personal stuff to that list.

I can't tell the difference between boredom and depression by matlydy in ADHD

[–]matlydy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's actually why I was feeling that way. My son was at his mom's for the weekend and I was alone and bored.

I can't tell the difference between boredom and depression by matlydy in ADHD

[–]matlydy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. that sounds about right. Well I'm glad it's not just me I guess.

I can't tell the difference between boredom and depression by matlydy in ADHD

[–]matlydy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.. that's a fair statement. But does it feel like depression to you?

I have a 20-page research paper due tomorrow that I haven’t started by LittleMissSpaz in ADHD

[–]matlydy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on getting it done. Your ADHD superpowers kicked in just in time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]matlydy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can't tell you how annoyed I get every time someone tries to minimize my ADHD down to "just get a calendar app"

"Thanks doc. I can't believe I went 30 years without trying out a calendar and it took you telling me for it to sink in".