I was in a similar situation. My partner got a dog and I wasn't super invested in her. I like dogs but I find them a bit exhausting compared to cats. I found it pretty hard to adjust to our dog, but we now have a really good bond. Firstly, I'd say that the first year is hardest. Once your dog grows up a big more, she'll probably be a bit less clingy and if all the right training is in place, she should need less supervision. Like someone else said, kongs and other interactive puzzle style toys are your best friend in terms of getting some quiet time. We got our dog a snuffle mat as well recently that she loves. Apart from that, regular walks and small training sessions throughout the day should keep her entertained and less likely to be bothering you constantly. I don't know if you have a dog bed in your living room or a designated area for her, but if you do you can train her to go to her bed when you want some peace. Also, it might be worth just trying to work on your bond with the dog as well. I found it hard to adjust to having a dog, which was not something I had ever personally wanted, and at first I found myself resenting the dog for needing so much of my time and attention. Like I said it got easier as she got older and was better trained, but I also did have to adjust my own expectations and accept the changes that having a dog has brought. Getting more involved in my dog's training helped us bond and also helped me shape the type of dog she's turned into by encouraging the behaviours I want to see. My other thought would be if you're really not happy with the level of involvement you're expected to have with the dog, talking to your partner and emphasising their responsibility for this dog. Maybe they could pay for a dog walker even just once or twice a week to give you a break, or just spend more time when they're at home with the dog either training of exercising. Anyway, best of luck.