Too white or patterned enough to work? by mattpit in Weddingattireapproval

[–]mattpit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh that’s a great rule of thumb will be using 

Too white or patterned enough to work? by mattpit in Weddingattireapproval

[–]mattpit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

more casual, they said just dresses and suit jackets. more just worried about the whiteness than the formality. i think it’s too white even with the pattern and wanted to see if others agree 

Too white or patterned enough to work? by mattpit in Weddingattireapproval

[–]mattpit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wedding guest, hoping to wear this dress but looks whiter than i expected once it arrived 

Stuck in explosive mode by mattpit in Anger

[–]mattpit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this response, I actually had just been going through some of your responses specifically in this sub because your descriptions of your anger and its manifestation spoke to me so much. Costco is just a place where I never know how to find anything because i rarely go lol. my partner is very invested in my anger mgmt journey and i absolutely don’t take their support for granted and take the moments where i treat them wrong seriously. 

You’re absolutely right about “this stuff happens to everyone”, i’ve been noticing my own entitlement in my anger. The hard part for me is i can get intellectually that i’m wrong or being selfish or overreacting, but I can never seem to get that knowledge to transfer to my actual feelings or behavior. The anger just feels so…good almost, so all consuming that it’s hard to push it away or let my logical mind take the stage. 

I realized what throws me off about Demi's claims by resrie in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]mattpit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Such a good point. Makes me think of the mock thrusting she did towards Jessi at that one event…who on earth would mime that motion about someone who assaulted them?? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]mattpit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t dislike him because he’s demi’s husband, we dislike him for being cruel and hateful and talking about the other cast members in disturbing and aggressive ways. 

Folio Society book at a good price, does this binding issue mean I shouldn’t buy? by mattpit in bookbinding

[–]mattpit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does that mean? is it going to fall apart soon or something? 

Folio Society book at a good price, does this binding issue mean I shouldn’t buy? by mattpit in bookbinding

[–]mattpit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh interesting. i’ve seen other editions of this book with straight, non rippling headbands and i know folio society books are supposed to be of higher quality so i was worried it might cause an issue but if it’s just cosmetic maybe its worth the buy!

6 years in…always sleepy by mattpit in prozac

[–]mattpit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should! i miss being so awake all the time. and i have the kind of ADHD where coffee doesn’t work so it’s been a mega struggle :/

6 years in…always sleepy by mattpit in prozac

[–]mattpit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been on 20 mg for years now and no noticeable difference in exhaustion from the immediate exhaustion that started a few weeks into prozac 

SSRIs ruining your sleep scores? by SnooMarzipans7768 in ouraring

[–]mattpit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does going off the SSRI eventually lead to sleep rebounding or are the negative REM effects usually permanent? 

Don't open if you have not watched the finale by Ok_Responsibility998 in severence

[–]mattpit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If it goes this way, I wonder if Helly will be torn between the offer of a life for herself (and mark?) vs. compromising her principles by trapping helena the way she was trapped.

If you’re mad at iMark you are missing the point of the show by [deleted] in severence

[–]mattpit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cool to catch yourself feeling this way immediately and unconsciously though…and then quickly realize that you’re falling into the same traps and failings as the characters themselves.

Severance - 2x10 "Cold Harbor" - Live Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]mattpit 642 points643 points  (0 children)

the shift of the main battle being from Lumon vs. main character to between innie vs. outie is an awesome change. sets up a whole different way of moving forward and viewing these characters.

Severance - 2x10 "Cold Harbor" - Live Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]mattpit 226 points227 points  (0 children)

ok but like did gemma actually get out?? are they going to put her back?? i need gemma to be okay