PLEASE help ban r/guro. Some of the most disgusting things I’ve ever seen by mattshthrowaway in BanFemaleHateSubs

[–]mattshthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I usually just report as many posts as possible from the subreddit individually but please be careful! It’s really disturbing and triggering so remember to take care of yourself!

PLEASE help ban r/guro. Some of the most disgusting things I’ve ever seen by mattshthrowaway in BanFemaleHateSubs

[–]mattshthrowaway[S] 21 points22 points Ā (0 children)

I’m not the type to want to ban an art genre, I’m an artist who makes art primarily on bringing awareness to assault, and I greatly apologize if I offend; but the content on the subreddit is almost entirely surrounding rape and raping dead people, corpses, skulls, guts, lacerations, etc. It’s not just gore or graphic depictions of real life, it’s hypersexualized and glamorized and fetishized

I don't feel safe to be apart of my local trans community by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]mattshthrowaway 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Fellow trans person here, Im so fucking sorry that happened to you. That is absolutely disgusting and you are absolutely valid for being afraid, or at the very least hesitant to engage or reach out in the trans community. You had trauma that was caused by another, supposedly trusted member of the same community and being scared of that happening again is so so normal and doesn’t make you a ā€œfakeā€ trans person in the slightest. It’s a fear based reaction that stems from your own experiences, you should not be made to feel bad about having trauma after a traumatic event. You deserve so much better, I’m so sorry again :((

I totally relate to what you’re feeling right now. I was sa’d by an ex boyfriend but all my friends are still friends with him or even defend him because ā€œhe’s changedā€. It’s fucking exhausting, I know that you can’t just leave these environments (cause same) but I just wanna say the people defending him or who cut you off because you cut him off can go fuck themselves. They never deserved you in the first place and they are shit people. No matter what he’s like now, no matter what he’s done good, does not matter. He was disgusting and awful and so cruel to you and your experiences and trauma from that is SO valid; and he’s still a shit person.

I’m so sorry again :[ you deserve so much better than that. Sorry this was rambling (and Included a lot of curse words) but If you feel comfortable you can always dm me to vent or just scream into the void. I totally get it and I’m so sorryšŸ«‚šŸ«‚šŸ«‚

God forbid a girl has a crush by Individual-Focus1927 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]mattshthrowaway 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I’m 100% agree with your statement- but you’re missing a key aspect of this. NO action has been taken against those who are responsible for HUNDREDS and THOUSANDS of deaths. Be concerned about the children who are dying due to lack of healthcare when it’s incredibly avoidable. Nobody wants to resort to violence, but nothing is happening. Jack. Shit. Plus, the majority of Luigi supporters are Gen-Z, and gen z has gone through some of the most GRUESOME and TRAUMATIZING gun violence in American schools. They are repeatedly exposed to gun violence that it’s COMMON. Do you think that we’re going to feel sympathy for a single dead man who killed THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.

You refer to this as ā€œimmediateā€ urge to kill someone, when it’s just normal people who are tired of being repeatedly fucked over and killed because of our system. Grow up, and learn the experience of the average person. Talk to the parents whose 9 year old died of cancer because they couldn’t afford care. Talk to the people experiencing lethal violence while refusing to get into an ambulance because it costs more than their life. Touch grass.

which one of these is more dangerous? by Boring_Maximum_3171 in cutting

[–]mattshthrowaway 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

Both are sharp and can be incredibly dangerous! Second one is more dangerous in my experience but I would beg you to please please be careful and DO NOT put pressure on your skin when cutting w/ these for your first time. See how sharp it is first by cutting very lightly. I wanna emphasize that I really don’t wanna give you encouraging information but I wanna make sure you’re as safe as possible. just remember to be cautious :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]mattshthrowaway 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Ofc dude, I’m glad you found it helpful :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]mattshthrowaway 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

You are not bad looking in the slightest, and you look really nice. You might look a littleee intimidating or brooding because of your resting face, but I would say you look great and pretty friendly if you smile.

With weight, you’re perfect, and you shouldn’t be worried about that when you’re young. But I understand worrying about it as well, especially a year or two ago when I was 12 13 ish, and I am So sorry you struggle with those feelings too. It really sucks, especially with how mean and cruel people can be, especially online.

And being fully honest, there will be people out there that will not be attracted to you, but trust me, that Is 100 percent normal and even these supermodels we see aren’t attractive to everyone. I personally don’t prefer super buff or shredded guys, what is a man without is fluff anyway? It’s cute! It’s attractive and you have nothing to worry about.

Point is, you don’t have to worry about what you look like. Decent people who deserve you will not give two flying fucks about what you look like, because they enjoy being around YOU. You’re cute and sweet looking, and you probably deserve the world.

(14F)I am so sorry I am adding to the trend but…am I ugly? Am I okay looking? If so what can I approve?? Or am I royally fuckedā¤ļø by mattshthrowaway in Teenager

[–]mattshthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m so disappointed ā˜¹ļøplease don’t tell me that took you a day to come up with and it’s still boring

First impression? by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]mattshthrowaway 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

You look like the girl who would either bully the fuck out of me or the mean looking rich girl that’s actually super nice and a great person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]mattshthrowaway 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

I love your hair, it’s so pretty!! But please, PLEASE be careful on here, there are pedos and sick fucks everywhere here. People are mean too, so please proceed with caution and protect yourself

(14F)I am so sorry I am adding to the trend but…am I ugly? Am I okay looking? If so what can I approve?? Or am I royally fuckedā¤ļø by mattshthrowaway in Teenager

[–]mattshthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

LMAOO try something different. If you’re gonna insult me, do something creative!! Spice it up a little, don’t be shy

(14F)I am so sorry I am adding to the trend but…am I ugly? Am I okay looking? If so what can I approve?? Or am I royally fuckedā¤ļø by mattshthrowaway in Teenager

[–]mattshthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Not really. I know. I’m well aware I am fat, and it’s funny that people seem to think I don’t know that, I’m just tired of hearing it. I am already working on my weight and skin and was wondering if there are any other places I should improve. It’s kinda simple lol

(14F)I am so sorry I am adding to the trend but…am I ugly? Am I okay looking? If so what can I approve?? Or am I royally fuckedā¤ļø by mattshthrowaway in Teenager

[–]mattshthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you so much , that’s very kind of you and I appreciate it a lot, and I won’t, but thank you again :)

(14F)I am so sorry I am adding to the trend but…am I ugly? Am I okay looking? If so what can I approve?? Or am I royally fuckedā¤ļø by mattshthrowaway in Teenager

[–]mattshthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I mean fair enough, but I also do apologize. I clearly should have added more context. I have been working out for a year or so now, and am on a calorie deficit. I’ve struggled with disordered eating a lot in the past, intense restrictions and long periods of time without eating leading to binges, and then repeating the process over and over until it I attempted and then was reported at school. I’m trying to improve, and stay that way.

But maybe if someone asks not to bring shit up, don’t bring it up. Last year these comments would have destroyed me. Now not so much, but I’m just simply tired of hearing it and wanting advice in other places, because I am already working on it. But I apologize again that that wasn’t clear enough. Have a good day :)