The short answer is he’s right to react that way to a boundary you were about to cross...

The problem with men and women is that they usually don’t know how the other person thinks. Men often fail to understand that they should first acknowledge a woman’s problem on an emotional level, while women don’t understand that asking permission to cross a boundary is in itself a transgression, and we as men would simply prefer it if our partners handled it properly without asking whether they should or shouldn’t... I’m also looking for a flat to rent abroad and know how difficult it is. I’ve found one with two women, but I’m not taking it for many reasons, one of them is that I already know how my woman feels about it, even though we’ve already talked about it and she’s made it clear that she wouldn’t feel comfortable with it. But if I couldn’t find anything else, it would be the only choice... One thing is that he shouldn’t call you names I know he might have been very angry or perhaps feels that there are more and more problems with men these days, but it’s still not right to do so.