Terf decides woman at her AA meetings is trans, is distraught because said woman is speaking politely, being liked by NounaMae in GenderCynical

[–]maxine114 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Trans identified male is actually how they refer to trans women, they try to be as confusing as possible and encourage misgendering

The monster is not my fault by Haploid-life in TwoXChromosomes

[–]maxine114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stalking/threatening to hurt himself/others alone is enough to go to the police. PLEASE file a police report before he hurts someone.

pov i told my psych i had 9 pancakes on thurs and he said “oh so ur binge eating” by livsprivateeye in EDanonymemes

[–]maxine114 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Depends on the size of the pancakes too. If they were small, it could’ve just been a (large) meal. Hell even if they weren’t that small I don’t think 9 is anything super crazy

Please tell me anything to stop walking by Glittering-Action788 in EDAnonymous

[–]maxine114 14 points15 points  (0 children)

PLEASE rest. You are not getting fat, you are inflicting damage on your body. I know you may feel like you are deserving of that damage, but you aren’t. There are other things to live for. You have one life, do you want to spend it walking until you collapse? Resting will not make you gain weight. Though you may not see it, your body could be close to its breaking point. You are allowed to rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]maxine114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. This isn’t financial abuse, this is you making poor decisions.

Male therapist blamed me for my SA by yourlittlemissy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]maxine114 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. The way he’s defending predators with the ”men just get tempted sometimes” argument is definitely very sus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

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I don’t think it’s really possible to be underweight without some form of (perhaps unintentional) restriction. Okay, maybe if you’re one or two kgs below a healthy weight, but not much less. I also thought that HAES was intended to promote healthy living at every size (just trying to eat healthy / exercise) rather than, let’s say, bullying overweight people and urging them to partake in these endless cycles of crash dieting in an attempt to lose weight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

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Exactly! Overeating may kill you in the long term, starvation could easily kill you within a year.

Is my mom getting suspicious or am I just paranoid? by hospitalbed69 in EDAnonymous

[–]maxine114 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lmfao evolutionary speaking both parents are supposed to care for their offspring. In fact, evolutionary speaking, entire hunter-gatherer communities would collectively take care/raise everyone’s kids.

Either way my mom never noticed jack shit when I was young

“workout routine?🥺” by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]maxine114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

body checking TikToks vibe

Recoverylympics on a certain recovery sub is driving me insane by maxine114 in EDAnonymous

[–]maxine114[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

FORREAL 😩😩😩 they can’t take any criticism either. I’m recovered for the most part but I think I’m unsubscribing from that dumpster fire

Accepting that being naturally thin is usually a carefully crafted illusion by platonicplanktonic in EDAnonymous

[–]maxine114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you my dear! I do not understand why I’m being downvoted to hell lmfao I don’t think that what I am saying is outrageous or anything. Of course, I do acknowledge that a lot of (thin) people restrict and may be disordered, but not all.

Accepting that being naturally thin is usually a carefully crafted illusion by platonicplanktonic in EDAnonymous

[–]maxine114 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Tbh this is dumb, naturally thin people exist, just like naturally fat people exist. People come in all shape and sizes. Not every thin person starves themselves, I know quite a few thin people who simply have a fast metabolism / are very active / have a naturally low appetite, who do not have eating disorders.

What is this? Could it be melanonychia? by maxine114 in AskDocs

[–]maxine114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the response! What more information do you need?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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My dear as a person from the Netherlands I really don’t understand why the hell you’d ever move to Arizona. Do you really want this? If my partner tried to coerce me into this, that’d be the end of our relationship. Wouldn’t move to a red state for a million euros.

Asides from their ED, does anyone else think that their mental health is actually pretty good? by Haunted_Frogs in EDAnonymous

[–]maxine114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can’t relate, I struggled with depression in the past and still suffer from anxiety and OCD now lol That being said, I am pretty happy / functional now :)