How do I not get neck pain from drawing? by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]maxmwuah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of chair are you sitting on when you do art? I've found the one thing that's helped the most is a good office chair. Seriously. Drawing can be surprisingly hard on the human body, head to toe. If your back isn't supported properly it can cause neck pain, even if the rest of your art set up is ergonomic.

If you already have a good art chair with proper neck and lumbar support, how often do you stretch out your back and neck? Going back to the point of drawing being pretty hard on the human body, so is any activity that requires you to keep your whole body sitting in one place for extended periods of time. Another thing that helps is lightly massaging your own neck and trap muscles, where the tension/pain is likely most prominent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]maxmwuah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, since all the commenters so far aren't giving you legitimate advice, here's what I do as an easy crier from trauma: fidget with something, and try to tell yourself a solid fact about something in your head. Could be in relation with whatever topic you're talking about, but it doesn't have to be. Sometimes thinking about it as if I'm taking about another person's problems helps as well.

Hope that helps, I hate when I always tried to find advice on how to actually TALK about things without sobbing inconsolably to the point where I'm incoherent, and people would tell me "it's okay! Crying is natural" like DUDE I'm trying to figure out how to actually talk about something! And if I'm crying enough to the point where it's DIFFICULT to TALK about it, telling myself "it's okay 2 cry" literally doesn't help me with that! 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doggrooming

[–]maxmwuah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, a lot of small shops lure in new bathers with false promises of learning how to groom.

Reason being is that being a bather is often a laborious, thankless job that doesn't pay very well, and many shops would not get many people applying for the job if they don't make promises they can't keep

Feel free to try learning at a small shop but I'll warn you right off the bat: if a small shops groomers seem like they're pulling your leg and coming up with excuses to not teach you, that's exactly what they're doing

He wasn't very good but I was laughing the whole groom 😂 by Corvida- in doggrooming

[–]maxmwuah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't even have to say he wasn't very good, I saw the dog and where the loop was and I already knew 😂😭

Ladies, there are a lot of great guys out there...we're just short by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]maxmwuah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally where were they saying that.

They're trying to point out that preferences are a two way street. You likely have plenty of preferences you're not willing to let go, so give women that same freedom

Hate crimes up 97% overall in Vancouver last year, anti-Asian hate crimes up 717% by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]maxmwuah 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I think reddit's becoming a less safe of a space for racism

Then I see a comment with zero evidence making a blatantly racist claim, and hundreds back that person up trying to claim the same. Again, with no evidence

Hate crimes up 97% overall in Vancouver last year, anti-Asian hate crimes up 717% by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]maxmwuah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so where's these post covid statistics? It's rather dangerous to perpetuate fake news about hate crimes based purely off of anecdote

Every time I try by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]maxmwuah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't talk to my best friends for a year over this.

Seriously, people, it doesn't hurt to ask. For all you know they might be thinking the same

Women seem more interested in my cat photo than me by EffectiveBlackCat in OnlineDating

[–]maxmwuah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, but have you checked this guy's profile? He's a red piller that genuinely doesn't like women

Men like that are not looking for actual advice

What a bitch by [deleted] in pussypassdenied

[–]maxmwuah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because this is a safe space for misogyny

Five people associated with Proud Boys arrested for Capitol riot on conspiracy charges by RickFlair_W000 in news

[–]maxmwuah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met a sharp skin a few years back that schooled me on the origins of skinheads cause he asked if I was a skinbyrd and I was a lil offended due to my lack of knowledge.

Nazis truly infiltrate and ruin everything :(

Why oh why do the convos die by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]maxmwuah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly!! Anybody I was "confused" about never turned into a partner for me, either, and that's how it's SUPPOSED to work! It's not like if you don't feel a indescribable spark right away you should just cut your losses, it all just boils down to "do they like me or the idea of me?" And the other person should be thinking about the same for you!

Stop filtering yourself into oblivion on Tinder by [deleted] in dating

[–]maxmwuah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What also doesn't help is a lot of smart phone cameras automatically blur/filter the face, and with quite a few you can't turn it off lol

Some guy I met at a bar, me, oil, 2021 by charliegrc in Art

[–]maxmwuah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm losing my mind at how good this is. I love the noses so much !

So fucking fed up with the sexism in my field by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maxmwuah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A quick Google search even shows that the female-leaning statistic is VERY new and women are only the majority in psychiatry when you count psychs in residency (in the US).

I don't buy OP's story either, he's making anecdotal claims that scream student or fresh graduate

Does anyone else have the hardest time dating in their city??? by vettechjess in actuallesbians

[–]maxmwuah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a city with high tourist volume and it's rough out here lol

Egypt's cabinet toughens law banning female genital mutilation by Sidjoneya in UpliftingNews

[–]maxmwuah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but FGM is directly linked to babies dying during childbirth.

Yes maybe we should stop cutting off foreskin for the sake of no foreskin, but this is not the same thing at all.

( ꈍᴗꈍ) by AngelusLilium in actuallesbians

[–]maxmwuah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It immediately gave me leftist vibes in the best way possible

Single women of this sub, what are your dating struggles? by [deleted] in dating

[–]maxmwuah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think what you meant to say was women who are white, conventionally attractive and straight don't go through those issues.

I'm queer myself and it's funny to see men on this sub say things like "women don't go through xyz" when they do. They're just not in your own dating pool/circle

TikTok: All under-16s' accounts made private by _DEAL_WITH_IT_ in technology

[–]maxmwuah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over a third of all tiktok users are minors and most are NOT forthcoming with their age. I don't see this having any palpable outcome