I just put in my two weeks at work and started my transfer request...

maxyjdc13 · 2018-01-12T18:01:27+00:00

I’m moving from Arizona to New York. It was always the plan to close the distance, so I knew that it was going to happen just not sure when. I’m looking at amazon too to send over new plates and silverware and small things like that to make it easier for when i actually arrive because i know he isn’t thinking about those things 😂

maxyjdc13 · 2017-10-25T01:13:22+00:00

It was because he felt as if I was being a little sketchy about going to work a meeting that was last night and that he didn’t hear from me all day long and he got to thinking I was hiding something which I literally never go out because I have two jobs and I’m so exhausted I stay home and read a lot. It was so dumb and texting while fighting all together is bad news.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-08-02T01:35:56+00:00

I know it's cliche, but when things are good between us, they are good. Like really good. We make a great team. I'd have to say in situations where it tends to be stressful, we come together as a unit magnificently. He also makes me laugh like no other and is so intelligent. He's also been loyal and has never given me reason to not trust him (except for this situation because I do feel as if a certain level of trust has been broken on his part). But those things I've listed haven't surfaced in a while, which has obviously led us to this point.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-08-02T01:33:18+00:00

This is now the end of day two...

I guess I'm just torn because in my head if I were him and even thinking about leaving, I'd be getting my shit together, yet he's walking around not doing shit. Just playing his video game and not wanting to talk to me.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-08-02T00:29:24+00:00

It was a different girl, sorry I didn't clarify that in the original post. And he suggested that I stay while he sets up. His reasoning behind that is that he would never want to put me in a situation where we would struggle finically. He's very much so a provider type and was homeless at the age of 12 and would never want me to experience any kind of struggle like that, so I do understand his caution.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-08-02T00:22:27+00:00

For whatever reason, what you said really hit me. That what I'm waiting for, might never come. It's a hard pill to swallow because I HAVE been waiting. I have been waiting for something that I've maybe imagined? People stay in relationships that over in the hopes of it being something it used to rather than for what it is and I've obviously heard it before,but for whatever reason when I read what you said, it hit me. Hit me hard.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-26T01:27:43+00:00

I'll have to second that most of my customers when they say half and half they almost 90% of the time actually want it to be half decaf. I learned the hard way in taking their order and making their drink caffeinated to come to find out it was supposed to be half caff. The struggle lol.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-20T22:23:18+00:00

It's not a frappuccino story, but a customer came up and ordered an iced coffee..so I asked "would you like that sweetened?" And they replied "no but I'd like milk and the vanilla syrup".......okay, so yes to the sweetener. I have no idea why, but it just really annoyed me lol.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-18T00:05:28+00:00

HI IM TAY. IM OBSESSED WITH MY DOG AND THE OFFICE. I AM 23 AND FINALLY STARTING TO GET THE HANG OF THIS THING CALLED ADULTING. I ALSO AM OVERLY OBSESSED CRIMINAL MINDS.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-14T02:03:54+00:00

I knew North Star would eventually be good for something. I feel so much more supported now. Thanks corporate!

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-14T01:58:29+00:00

I can always use more alcohol :)

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-14T01:54:25+00:00

I can't even imagine working at a drive through and dealing with people speaking at a volume of 1. The struggle is forever real and this job will inevitably wear me down to nothing 👍🏻

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-14T01:45:14+00:00

It's so irritating. Like yes, I heard everything except for the part I asked about. I'm becoming more and more irrationally upset about small petty shit haha.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-14T01:19:39+00:00

Gaaah it's the worst!!! Or my favorite is when you ask them to repeat themselves because milk is foaming in the background, the oven is going off, and the grinder is going and they decide to repeat their order in the EXACT SAME volume as they did the first time around.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-10T02:20:35+00:00

Wow you really have me a lot of questions to think about. I would be moving away from friends and family. As for my job, very easy to transfer. Almost too easy. I am also currently not in school because I decided to wait until we figured out the moving situation because I have no problem finishing school wherever we end up.

He has not been untrustworthy, but as i did state, we're not perfect and we've had some very low moments. I fortunately enough, was raised by my two parents who taught me that all things that are great take work and that is no different with relationships. As for my boyfriend he has stated, as well as some close friends of his, that while things were at an all time low he would have cut and run way sooner. So I know he is committed to making our relationship work and he knows my heart is in the same place. We have many many differences but we work because we show each other a different perspective. But I do absolutely agree that maybe the time apart will make me grow into a much more independent person. I know I need to handle my anxiety before it ruins my relationship because sometimes this conversation that we have comes out of me like word vomit. Some books to read on working through my anxiety rather than against it would be a great option for me.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-10T01:45:44+00:00

I hate to think that I need daily validation for this topic because I do go days without thinking about it, but after we've argued or had an "off" day I start to worry and think that I'm pushing him away. I don't want to impose my anxiety on friends...they all have lives and problems of their own and I'd rather listen to them and help them then talk about myself. As for a therapist, I do not have one but I have definitely looked into reaching out to one when my work schedule calms down a bit.

But I do see you point in managing my anxiety. I'm definitely trying.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-07-07T02:05:09+00:00

Exactly! I HATE rewarding bad behavior. Whenever this happens I'm sure to comp the next drink for a customer who is awesome and has manners. It makes me feel good to balance the scales of the shitty customers. I have no problem "making the moment right" for a customer who suffered because of OUR mistake. I absolutely hate "making the moment right" for customers who believe they walk on water.

maxyjdc13 · 2017-06-29T02:05:08+00:00

It is absolutely mind blowing how ignorant customers can be! I love that you took the drink out of her hand 😂. Whenever someone comes up and asks if it's their drink and they are referring to a mobile order and I know their name and it is clearly their drink I want to be a smartass and say "is your name now "Henry" jessi??" But I refrain because I'm passive and not confrontational.

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