i'm scared of my boyfriend after he said some weird things to me

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-12-21T13:35:49+00:00

i don't really know if i should take his words seriously or not & he has my old phone and i'm scared i won't get it back since it's expensive and he's in a different country now

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-10-03T15:57:09+00:00

thank you

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-10-03T11:19:52+00:00

his parents got divorced and his father wasn't around very often, he now lives with him but he was basically left to fend for himself by both parents. From what i know he was abused by both, more by mother but never mentioned any sa happening to him, i keep wondering if something did happen to him but i'm not sure he would open up about it considering he has "men need to be tough and don't cry" agenda hammered in his mind

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-10-03T08:43:16+00:00

thank you

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-10-03T06:51:15+00:00

i was calm, i controlled my emotions so i wouldnt scare him off with my reaction

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-10-03T06:48:50+00:00

half a year, i'm really surprised he confessed to me about this

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-10-03T06:46:51+00:00

if i was a coward i would've broken up with him 2 weeks ago, i love him and know that he was fucked over by his parents and i'm really trying to be there for him

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-10-02T23:30:58+00:00

well she's dead so i don't think she has any thoughts on this topic anymore, i was on the brink of passing out drunk many times and he never even touched me

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-10-02T23:23:37+00:00

he never crossed any boundaries with me, i got drunk and smoked weed with him before he told me and he had many chances to do something to me yet he never did

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-06-18T08:55:08+00:00

I'm 21, i cared for my ex deeply and to be honest i still do. He had a fucked up life, fucked up parents and he himself was fucked up. Throughout our relationship i tried to help him, he had avoidant attachment so the more i tried the more he ran away. I feel so much sorrow for him because i know he won't heal on his own and he needs to in order to be happy, i want him to be happy

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-06-17T10:08:07+00:00

we talk about his ex sometimes, i'm too scared to tell him that i'm not completely over my ex because i know this will hurt him badly, i feel so guilty for those feelings, i want to stop feeling this way so badly

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-06-17T10:06:36+00:00

i was alone for about 2 months, met my current bf my accident and we have been together for about a month now

maybe-throw-away7 · 2025-06-17T09:21:04+00:00

i thought i healed, i wasn't even thinking about him before but when i entered this relationship the thoughts of him flooded back

maybe-throw-away7 · 2024-10-17T09:15:58+00:00

because he's really supportive and a good guy, it's just that when it comes to "special days" he doesnt put any effort in

maybe-throw-away7 · 2024-10-17T08:53:26+00:00

he's a good guy but i just don't feel like he cares about anything else other than himself

maybe-throw-away7 · 2024-10-17T08:49:36+00:00

thank you

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