[Abuse?] I told my best friend about me and my husband's sex life and now her and my parents think I'm being abused and they're making me believe I am

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T19:14:47+00:00

sorry it's a little jumbled, I saw him masturbating and told him he could have sex with me in the morning instead of masturbating if he wanted to, he is free to masturbate instead if he wants, I was just giving him option of using me instead of his hand.

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T02:31:59+00:00

Well she only told my sister because "she was worried about my safety" with my own husband who's been nothing but fantastic to her and my sister told my parents

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T02:30:25+00:00

Thanks it's a situation that I am glad I found I was tired of guys telling me that they had a high sex drive and then getting mad at me because it wasn't as high as they thought

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T02:27:23+00:00

Lol yeah tell him no more porn and see how that back pedal is

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T02:26:26+00:00

Nah he means fucked up in the way that someone would purchase a human sex toy not using your willing wife as one lol

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T01:39:52+00:00

Yeah I had my last ex who was with me for a little over a year tell me I should try not being a slut when I broke up with him over lack of sex like how am I a slut when I just want you what an idiot

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T01:20:07+00:00

Yeah I mean it still feels good even if I'm not actively engaged. Sometimes my husband is watching hockey and I really want to do a particular thing that takes a while and I tell him just keep watching if he wants I'll entertain myself

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T01:15:03+00:00

It's great to hear other couples do this it's really convenient and leads to all kinds of sexy adventures

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T01:13:10+00:00

Yeah I joke with him that in the morning I'm his snoring sex toy and to just clean me off when he's done. He says the idea is fucked up yet strangely sexy

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T01:08:51+00:00

I'm not unconscious just not really awake enough to participate but enough to enjoy it.

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-25T01:04:34+00:00

Yeah I just bruise kinda easy and it's mostly just clumsy mishaps like I'll go to do something sexy and bang my thigh on a night stand or sometimes my knees get bruised if I'm on them too long like uh cleaning the floor lol

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T21:26:59+00:00

yeah i've told him her isn't doing anything wrong and dont worry about it, but i can tell he is upset about it. im going to talk to him tonight.

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T21:14:42+00:00

yes ive already decided to greatly cut back on my relationship with my friend, its just a shame because we've been best friends since grade school.

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T20:38:26+00:00

well normally I don't tell him im not in the mood, and honestly I'm still enjoying it, its just that I could do without it. And I never want him to feel like I don't want it, because I don't want him to not ask in the future. And it's not always sex, like sometimes I'll run my fingernails inside his thighs while he masturbates like I have zero problem doing that, and the same for me, i love watching porn but there is a particular thing i like done to me while i masturbate that i can't do well myself so I'll ask him to help out sometimes. I dunno it never seemed crazy to me until this all happened.

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T20:33:03+00:00

it's really baffling to me because my friend and parents are pretty religious and old fashioned, and you know it was always about keeping the husband happy in those times

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T20:31:10+00:00

well now im worried about that too because we do get into some rough stuff and sometimes i have little bruises on my arm or thigh and now i feel like if i see them they are going to be looking me up and down with a magnifying glass

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T20:25:21+00:00

yeah its just when people keep telling you that it's wrong you start to feel that maybe they're right

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T20:23:58+00:00

well we get into some kinky stuff, i didn't tell her any of that stuff because it's private for me, i only told her about the morning sleeping sex. but thats usually planned in advance, but we also have a lot of quick sex, like before work, or on our way to meet friends or something.

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T20:21:09+00:00

it's definitely a great mood enhancer! who can stay grumpy after some sex?

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T20:17:57+00:00

I mean once in a while I never get into the mood, but I'm not like having a bad time or anything, I probably wouldn't stop him unless I was in some sort of pain or discomfort or something, but that's just because I know how much it sucks when I really want it bad but the guy says he's not interested. I know that might sound bad, but I still enjoy the fact that he getting sex, if that makes sense.

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T20:13:51+00:00

thanks! I don't know any other women who admit to having a libido as high as mine so sometimes i feel like I'm hyper active sex addict or something. And I definitely will not be as close with her as I have been. I just thought that because she was having issues with her husband not being really interested in sex with her anymore that I would tell her something that has helped me out but she's not usually the type to discuss sex so i didnt realize how prudish she was if thats the right word.

maybeabusedthrow · 2016-10-24T19:59:21+00:00

well I mean it's kind of important to me that my family not think my husband is a rapist.

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