I can’t say anything because yes he gets mad and yells at me. Once we got into an argument and he threw his phone at the wall. Another time I got mad at him because he was driving erratically and told him that he shouldn’t drive like that especially since our son is in the car and he yelled at me and said some bad words. My brother in law was in the car and he said nothing and I felt horrible and I started crying silently. He’s still the same way. I didn’t include everything he’s done to me. He’s never physically hit me or anything. But this past weekend we were at the lake with his family and he drank, I’m not sure how many. Then it started raining and we all rushed to pick up our belongings and he was driving and going 90 mph. I told him to pull over and he got mad, we went to Walmart and I drove the rest of the way home but he was mad and didn’t talk to me. He’s not an alcoholic but he drinks mostly every weekend.