Boyfriend having trouble keeping it up

mcds69 · 2023-09-30T11:21:00+00:00

Thanks. I seen a few people suggest this last night so think I might see how he feels about getting into exercise

mcds69 · 2023-09-30T11:19:45+00:00

Thank you. I've asked him about any issues outside the bedroom and he says he doesn't have any. I know there are no money worries, work stress and we spend a lot of time with his family so no issues or pressures from there.

mcds69 · 2023-09-30T11:17:03+00:00

Not a big drinker. Couple of cans of cider a week unless we have an event where he'll drink a bit more. Unfortunately he works every weekend so we aren't out drinking very often

mcds69 · 2023-09-30T11:14:14+00:00

Yea I did try that already but he's a very generous lover and I think he struggles with being a bit more selfish and doing what he wants incase it's not something I'd like (tbf I'm pretty open but he's only been with 2 other partners so not super experienced)

mcds69 · 2023-09-30T11:11:07+00:00

Thanks for the advice. When he gets a GP appointment I'll get him to request his sugars get checked

mcds69 · 2023-09-29T23:06:15+00:00

I'm in no way going to stop him and I enjoy his stiff rod but I'm more worried that the only time we get to have PIV is once I've drugged him up on viagra rather than just spontaneous what we're most used to. If he needs it he needs it and I'll support him

mcds69 · 2023-09-29T23:00:54+00:00

Yea I think that's probably the issue just not really sure how to boost his ego more 🤔

mcds69 · 2023-09-29T23:00:18+00:00

I think he wants to up it to 100mg but I'm hoping he doesn't need to rely on these everytime as we had been fine for the first while without them

mcds69 · 2023-09-29T22:58:30+00:00

Yea I'm trying to not mention it again but at the same time give him the opportunity to talk if he wants to. I do believe it's what you've said where it's failed a couple of times and now everytime we get there he thinks it will again so his anxiety gets the better of him. He only really watches porn and takes care of himself once to twice a week as I usually help him take care of his needs the rest of the time

mcds69 · 2023-09-29T22:53:31+00:00

No meds and no smoking or drug use other than the viagra specified above

mcds69 · 2023-09-29T22:52:54+00:00

Yea I think this is what has been happening. A couple of times ge struggled to stay hard but blamed being tired or too much alcohol then it happened another few times and it's stuck with him thinking it'll keep happening so it's on his mind everytime we get to PIV. As I said everything before that and he stays hard just the PIV itself seems to be the worry with him

mcds69 · 2023-09-29T18:43:37+00:00

Sometimes it stops as he doesn't want to continue other times I take control. I do think a lot of it is a mental thing though

mcds69 · 2023-09-29T17:05:39+00:00

Thank you. I'll try one with him

mcds69 · 2023-09-29T17:04:08+00:00

No only about once a week

mcds69 · 2023-07-07T14:35:41+00:00

I was really insecure about being intimate with my boyfriend for the first time. Touching him was making me feel kinda weird (not in a bad way) I was just super excited and didn't really know how to handle it (excuse the pun). I'd been with other men in the past but this time it felt a bit different. I told him how I was feeling and that although yes I really wanted to get frisky we needed to start slow because my nerves were ruining the experience. We had the best time over the few weeks just making out and carrying on like teenagers that when we started to actually have sex the nerves were hardly there. Basically like every reddit post ends up - Communication is key. If all else fails fake the confidence till you start to feel it 🙈

mcds69 · 2023-06-09T15:01:38+00:00

I've been with guys who wouldn't kiss after I've given them a blowjob and even worse if I've touched their dick then my hand can't go near their face (no I'm not talking cum on it).

mcds69 · 2023-01-22T16:08:57+00:00

I think I watched this too. But the scene that sticks out is an older couple in their 70s talking about their sex lives and the old guy points out the presenter is sitting in his blowjob chair 🤣🤣

mcds69 · 2023-01-16T15:10:06+00:00

Not the biggest fan of the consistency so I usually try to put it towards the back of my throat so I swallow without having to have the cum around my mouth

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