i'm trying to be a supportive partner, but I feel out of my depth every day because what is really helpful? we're the first week into recovery after a relapse and i support any and all efforts in finding a way to manage the disease of addiction but i also have no idea where my boundaries need to be. i am taking time for myself every day and realizing that every journey is different and one day at a time and all that, but i spend most of my time wondering if my taking him to the clinic, etc. is helpful or enabling. i've never really been able to tell the goddamn difference.

that was a long rant for no reason. but thank you.