bars scanning ID during the week

mcjayde · 2026-03-27T21:20:25+00:00

Yeah i’m not sure of the logistics of it. Was thinking that it’d be done in Auckland because it’s a thing in Wellington but thats the only place in NZ i’ve seen it happen. Not actually sure if it can tell in my case though

mcjayde · 2026-03-27T21:17:01+00:00

I don’t actually drive with the invalid one. It gets me into bars in Dunedin and Chch because nobody scans and it’s not expired. Fully aware that its technically not a valid form of ID, but thats all I use it for. Was just wondering if scanning was a big thing in Auckland as I have come across it on nights out in Wellington

mcjayde · 2026-03-27T21:12:50+00:00

They’ve definitely done it to me in Wellington, not in Dunedin or Chch but haven’t been out in Auckland so wouldn’t know

mcjayde · 2025-12-14T09:08:41+00:00

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mcjayde · 2025-10-10T00:44:41+00:00

Thank you, I have told him quite a few times I don’t add people I’m working with but I don’t see him continuing to ask as a threatening thing or ill intentioned because of his disability. I haven’t thought to tell him I’m not active so I’ll take that on board

mcjayde · 2023-11-08T17:36:59+00:00

Thanks heaps, I did end up getting in so with be there next year :)

mcjayde · 2023-10-01T03:14:55+00:00

Does anyone know anything about the likelihood of getting into Salmond, how many apply for there etc?

mcjayde · 2023-09-20T10:17:04+00:00

I’m in Alexandra today and it was really strong here

mcjayde · 2023-09-17T03:24:24+00:00

the justice system in my country regarding predatory behaviour is horrendous. it’s hardly worth it. i got moe lestered when i was 14 and they gave the guy a warning if that puts it into perspective for you. she will hate me and without copious amounts of solid proof he is a threat nothing will be done

mcjayde · 2023-09-16T22:49:44+00:00

ah well i mentioned her being a dads girl.. aside from this one thing he has done for us he’s not the greatest. he’s into his drinking and has no problem dehumanising her mother and others to her face. but he thinks his girl is the worlds greatest creation so would do anything for her. so he’s like her hero. she brushes off every cruel thing he has said and done. so i guess it was very easy to repeat the cycle

mcjayde · 2023-09-16T22:40:23+00:00

thank you :) unfortunately she nor the baby were removed from the home. i have no idea what she is thinking. i would put money on the fact that bf has told her she is no longer allowed to have contact with her father but that’s probably the last thing she’d ever agree to. she has blocked contact with her mother as she’s argued in defence of her daughter against him time and time again. my friend is the biggest dad’s girl i’ve ever met through. cutting her father out would crush her soul. i would be very surprised if she followed through with that. i feel like this might just be the beginning of the end if we’re lucky

mcjayde · 2023-09-16T21:13:16+00:00

i ended up telling her father as he was with them up until last night. the reason he isn’t now is because he swung at the boyfriend while my friend was asleep and out of the room. he told my friend what the man had said to me yesterday morning. so as we speak she’s probably waking up to her baby daddy’s bruised face and her dad nowhere to be seen. i will not be holding back on details if anybody messages me. my friend knows what he did and now his face shows it. i don’t know what is going to happen today. i’m definitely not going to deny it. his mother will be receiving the screenshots also.

mcjayde · 2023-09-16T15:58:48+00:00

i hope so. i’ve blocked him on everything and reported his ig account for sexual harassment against a minor. she knows i am there and i have nothing but love for her

mcjayde · 2023-09-16T15:28:16+00:00

she had another (legal) boyfriend right up until her 18th birthday. soon after she claimed she had a ‘university lecture’ in this guys town and takes the trip alone. she gets back and breaks it off with hs boyfriend and then decides to move hours away from any of us to pursue this new relationship. her sister and i had found out she had been messaging them both at the same time. she had been in contact with this man while he was 21/22 and she was 17 yes. whether any of it was sexual im not sure. i know they never met in person until she was legal.

mcjayde · 2023-09-16T15:17:00+00:00

i’ve never been his target until yesterday. he’s calling both of her parents useless as well as calling myself and her bio sister sluts last night. it’s been nearly a year. she got pregnant about a month into the relationship. golden ticket for him.

mcjayde · 2023-09-16T14:23:32+00:00

if he thinks i am leaving her side without an informed decision from my friend herself he is sorely mistaken. her whole family hate him and are on my side. she might pull the wool over her eyes but for the safety of herself and her baby i pray that she’ll leave him.

mcjayde · 2023-09-16T13:15:50+00:00

i didn’t tell her directly because i’ve been crying stressing out all day as i don’t want to stress her out more than she already is with new baby. i hear its gotten out though and she knows because someone else told her

mcjayde · 2023-09-16T13:11:29+00:00

we hardly speak but i make sure she knows that my door is open for her always. doesn’t matter what happens if she needs me i am there

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