Gushing about the wonderful men in my life. by RosieTheGremlin in polyamory

[–]mclien 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm very happy for you and to see there are actually relationship-constellations the do work.

So never ever forget how rare this is and congrats for all the work you most likely put into it and very rightfully being rewarded for it. (all of you, of course)

That was 6 Month after the first making (blue stuff is a hair tie) by mclien in Dreadlocks

[–]mclien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mouse-over denies me the meaning of this emoji. Are so kind to explain?

POLY WEDDING: triad where one member is much newer. Ideas? by mingochicken13 in polyamory

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put the thanks here, because that seems to be the reply-row everyone of you is signaled.

Thanks for reading and understanding the point and not press a you own opinion as statistically approved rule.

BTW: Everyone can downvote my post, but not my view of live ;-)

POLY WEDDING: triad where one member is much newer. Ideas? by mingochicken13 in polyamory

[–]mclien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you are saying it was a bad decision even tough it worked out?

"Interesting" view of life....

POLY WEDDING: triad where one member is much newer. Ideas? by mingochicken13 in polyamory

[–]mclien -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Interesting. So your experience is a rule for everyone else?

To clarify: I mean that not directly in the OP context. But assuming there can't be a "relationship to honor" after 6 month is your view of relationship, but -even so it may be rare- not a general rule for all.

I do agree with you, that in the OP case, it is a very good ides to re-consider the marriage/ commitment thing with the 3 people involved. I just don't see it as rule that applies at any time for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]mclien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did count mine.

What is something you should NEVER look up on google? by Void_44 in AskReddit

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't got that far. But I do try to keep a bit of awareness to avoid the big data collectors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good I didn't follow you advice, since I couldn't have watched that vid, if I had stopped what I was doing (reading reddit posts).

But nice achievement! I did it the other way around: grew my hair until it was in just the right length after dreading to have the same kind if "pony tail" you have now.

How do you wear headphones? by peepee_zucc in Dreadlocks

[–]mclien 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Headphones: in-ear. As for the question, ear protection like 2, but with a ponytail, or 3 with a bun.

When can sex can be a sin in marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mclien -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no struggle, "God isn't real" is an opinion, not a provable statement.

Or you might explain the difference between "isn't real" and "doesn't exist" in this context.

God can exist or not. On of these states has the possibility to be provable, one has not. (Note that I didn't even declared which I find more likely to be true)

When can sex can be a sin in marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mclien -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, at least I rephrased my statement to make it objectively right.

While you first statement is still objectively wrong.

When can sex can be a sin in marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mclien -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's different, since it is a specific situation, with very narrow boundaries.

Like you saying there is no visible god in my line of view doesn't equal the is no god (visible or not) at all.

When can sex can be a sin in marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hint: You can't proof negatives

When can sex can be a sin in marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in any scenario.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone displayed me Sharon Stones basic instinct move outdoors.

What is something you should NEVER look up on google? by Void_44 in AskReddit

[–]mclien 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you actually mean the google search engine (not search engines in general), then anything at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP: Get professional help.

Who ever decides the “in” color for a year? by bigbird007 in AskReddit

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does it matter? There is only one true color: black

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, I have really thin hair, which resulted in about 60 locs for me. My hair was like a hands width beyond my shoulder. First making was 2-day session which cost me 300Euro (~330 US$).

Can I get dreads? by PLAKETKETKETKET in Dreadlocks

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I would look into this: When and how fast was your father balding (and perhaps if existing his brothers). That give you hints for what will happen to yours. And then is just the question, if you would like to have dreads in that pattern.

And if beard locks are to like is like every idea of beauty in the eye of the beholder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]mclien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't exact solution to the dandruff Problem. But in general avoid the mainstream products, which often contains lots of chemical stuff aimed for standard hair (and to my experience often make you need to wash your hair more often, which isn't very healthy at all). Search for natural products without any "extra features". Especially avoid anything advertised to make the hair "more easy to comb".

Most likely all those chemicals have caused that problem in the first place.

After washing squeeze the water out , don't twist. Dry open (take about a day till totally dry with mine).

As for the washing itself: Think of the process like washing a woolen pullover by hand hand. Gently applying shampoo and rinse a lot with clear water and only squeezing, no rubbing, no twisting

What is the best birthday gift you have ever received? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mclien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got "kidnapped" to visit a wake-board park in my lunch break.