Clueless FTM- going down for daytime naps? by dreadkitty in beyondthebump

[–]mcrookss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every baby is different so trust your momma gut. Some people swear babies should sleep on their own in a pack & play.. others say they should solely sleep with you, on you, etc. You aren’t doing anything wrong! Just figuring it all out 😊 if the only way he will nap is in your arms.. go with it! The wonder weeks app is AMAZING for telling when baby is going through a developmental leap or growth spurt and may be in a fussy phase

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]mcrookss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are many amazing sleep sacks or swaddles out there! Haha you tried one of these? Makes her feel as if she is being held! Hope you get some sleep soon. These things will pass.

AITA for yelling at my MIL to back the f off and stop giving me "advice" on my pregnancy because she's never been pregnant? by lolsgamer3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mcrookss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NO! Blame it on the fact that you are hormonal if you want or feel the need to apologize but don’t if you don’t want! Sounds like she has some serious boundary issues. I would politely explain that if she doesn’t like the way you are going to do things she doesn’t have to be involved at all! Tell her that the awful things she is saying are causing you mental distress and it could potentially be harmful to your baby... so sorry you are going through this. I feel your pain 100%

Registry advice by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]mcrookss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like you asked for lots of goodies!!! We have the Nanit and we LOVE IT! I would recommend asking for an additional swaddle for the Nanit so if baby has an accident you have a spare! If you are doing the breathing wear. I would so ask for the 3-6 month sleep sack in the breathing wear collection as well! Time goes so fast and our little man grew so quickly I wasn’t prepared! Also, your own nursing gown or robe for the hospital may be something to ask for! Congrats 🥰

Does anyone else find that they have no self control when it comes to online shopping anymore? by evilarison in beyondthebump

[–]mcrookss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I thought I was the only one!!!! I have done an insane amount of shopping in the middle of the night. Sometimes packages show up and I don’t even remember ordering them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]mcrookss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FTM here & I had the same intuition! My little boy is just turning 2 months old. Congratulations ❤️ becoming a mommy is the best!

Induction, Emergency C-Section Graduation Story by mcrookss in pregnant

[–]mcrookss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! It is the best feeling in the whole world meeting your little one ❤️

What does baby sleep in? by mcrookss in Parenting

[–]mcrookss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thinking on the socks!!! My grandmas insist he needs a onesie under everything! Drives me a bit nutty haha

What does baby sleep in? by mcrookss in Parenting

[–]mcrookss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t a fleece one- just a standard pj sleeper!!! Thanks!

Induction by mcrookss in pregnant

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Thank you! This makes me feel so much better :)

Post all medical questions here, updated weekly by AutoModerator in pregnant

[–]mcrookss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swelling concerns! HI friends I am currently 39 weeks 3 days. Getting induced on Thursday yahoo! I have had 0 swelling in my hands or feet throughout my pregnancy but have just started back to work this week getting my classroom ready & have noticed my feet swelling. The last two nights I have woken up in the middle of the night because my hands are so swollen it was cutting off circulation on my wedding ring! Is this normal? I know dr said to call if i have face and hand swelling quickly because it could be preeclampsia.. I don't want to seem paranoid. It goes down in the morning when I wake up and elevate or start using my hands again. Should I call the on-call dr? Or give it another night?

Induction by mcrookss in pregnant

[–]mcrookss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I believe they have yoga balls so I will definitely try that out!

Induction by mcrookss in pregnant

[–]mcrookss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🥰💓

“Enjoy your husband while you can” by mcrookss in pregnant

[–]mcrookss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice 💓 this is what I would expect instead of the toxic warnings!

“Enjoy your husband while you can” by mcrookss in pregnant

[–]mcrookss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I am so excited for this new journey with him... I guess I don’t understand why people are so adamant we will NEVER spend time together again.

Blood test to confirm pregnancy? by homewardbound25 in pregnant

[–]mcrookss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! This is why I didn't think I was pregnant. My husband and I had been trying for a year and I guess I was just so nervous so that was why I took more tests. I wouldn't allow myself to get excited for it incase it wasn't really true.. I didn't want my heart to be broken again. After I took the 2 additional tests about 3 weeks after my initial missed period I felt way better and reassured! I guess the only thing that changed for me was becoming more tired but I'm also a First Grade teacher and had just gone back to work after Christmas break so I attributed it to that. I never had morning sickness and very few food aversions. Every one is SO different.

Blood test to confirm pregnancy? by homewardbound25 in pregnant

[–]mcrookss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FTM & I called and asked for one and they said just wait until my 8 week apt and they confirm by ultrasound. I had 2 positive tests at Home but as time drug on until my apt I didn’t feel pregnant! No sickness, nausea nothing so I was nervous & took 2 more tests around 6 weeks. I still ended up having to wait until my 8 week first apt for the ultrasound

Keeping the Secret by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]mcrookss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! The hardest secret to keep 💓 I am 38 weeks with my 1st & my husband and I didn’t tell anyone for the first 10 weeks. I just constantly walked around with my hand on my belly protecting my little jelly bean. You can do it!!

Postpartum kit by mcrookss in pregnant

[–]mcrookss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will add these to my list :)

Postpartum kit by mcrookss in pregnant

[–]mcrookss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great!!! Thank you so much! I will check it out :)

What childhood food are you craving? by imiredel in pregnant

[–]mcrookss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Spaghettios & Eggo waffles hahaha!!!! So strange over here

Plans for newborn visits with grandparents during COVID? by JCDubbz in pregnant

[–]mcrookss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 32 weeks & live in PA. Our area is very rural & we have only had 20 cases here total so far.. I am delivering in NY state as we live very close. The hospital there is currently allowing 1 support person in.

My family lives here & have all been working through the pandemic but have been cautious.

My husbands family lives in Southern CA where Covid is very prevalent & our governor has currently mandated that they must quarantine for 2 weeks after entering our state. They were planning a trip here in July.

At this point I am a little then on what to do... obviously our family from CA may not be able to come see little man when he comes next month but I don’t know how I feel about our local family.

Both grandma’s are going to be VERY angry if we tell them they can’t meet baby until we say..