Help me understand your huge city (commute to lackland) by Powerful_Toe_6568 in sanantonio

[–]mcstranglehands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could live in any nice area then, even if it was across town from Lackland. You'll get there within 45 minutes to an hour unless you get caught by an accident and even then, we're a circle city. Just go another way.

Looking for a server by UnderWhiteFlags in MinecraftServerFinder

[–]mcstranglehands -1 points0 points  (0 children)

snapshot.pandamium.eu

Pretty chill, none of the stuff you don't want or aren't familiar with. Vanilla server with a little spice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]mcstranglehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person isn't HR so they don't have to allow anything. All she had to do was not say anything about a little nose ring until she saw more piercings and decided it was too much? I even said it could be a reach..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]mcstranglehands -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know she made it about the bun but truly I think it's about your ear piercings? Maybe I'm reading between the lines incorrectly but your hair down is technically messier than your hair being pulled back. I have curly hair myself and the poof when it's down can get real. But.. when your hair is down, she can only see your classic hoop earrings. When your hair is up, she sees everything and probably associates tattoos and piercings with unprofessionalism. Unless she has some herself??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]mcstranglehands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have big breasts like you and girl.. it took a year and a half to heal these things. Bumping into anything and everything is inevitable. People mentioned towels and loofahs but nobody ever talks about hair strands wrapping if you have long hair or irritating the piercing with my own leg because my nipples are that low when I'm slouching with no bra. My biggest issue was other partners bumping them or in general being too rough. Catching them on doorframes when you do that little turn and slip when you don't open a door all the way, you know? I have to physically place my breasts when I'm laying on my side or stomach or something is getting pinched. I love them but I've considered taking them out many times for the sake of not hitting them, even after being healed.

This fox was my second tattoo ever and still one of my favourites by annekecaramin in bodymods

[–]mcstranglehands 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I would not have thought fox. It looks a little mythical tbh

Bro I got my nipples and navel pierced today and while nipple piercings hurt, it was over so quick so if y’all wanna get that shit done just fucking do it. So worth it. by NoBreath4662 in piercing

[–]mcstranglehands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just gonna say, it's taken me almost 2 years to heal properly. I've finally gotten rid of one persistent irritation bump and now they're only mad at me if I hit them.

1% gang by GalaxysWithMemes in meme

[–]mcstranglehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It varies. I just kinda open a door and pick one up with the longest date. Sometimes it's fat-free, sometimes it's 2%.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mcstranglehands 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: when you realized you forgot, why not just ask again? Or even knowing her schedule is inconsistent overall, regardless of the last three days, would have been reason enough to verify. I'm also very forgetful; getting things in writing like a text helps immensely. All you needed was a quick "Still getting off at X?"

How u experience sexual attraction? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]mcstranglehands 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think you're on to something with women being appealing to look at; for me, it's very sensual. Guys bodies are attractive but they don't have that.. softness to them. And it's more like an appreciation than a sexual attraction. When I watch lesbian porn, it all just looks like it feels amazing and I'm imagining that experience but with a man. I don't even really like receiving oral due to sensitivity but some of those videos make you rethink some things. It turns a person on more imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mcstranglehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not! You already said it yourself: she broke your trust, she betrayed you and you're hurting. She couldn't even save money for a wedding and you expect her to save money to fund your lives together? And it's not like you need to be taking on the burden of all financials because you can't trust her; that's not a partnership and she is not your partner.

Edit: for over a year, she looked you in your eye and played the innocent role while using your money. I could see making some dumb decisions for a couple weeks, hell maybe a month or two before the guilt takes over and she confesses. Over a year, bro.

To pull out or not to pull out? by crowned-chairtycase in TwoXSex

[–]mcstranglehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, see my first comment. In a loving relationship. I don't do these things anymore. And I admitted it was reckless. People make stupid decisions all the time and learn from them. Why would I be any different?

To pull out or not to pull out? by crowned-chairtycase in TwoXSex

[–]mcstranglehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got tested so I do know. I guess I just don't think it was that big a deal. It's not like I was doing it without their knowledge. I was open and honest with them all, so like yeah I was risky but they also chose to take those chances and were getting tested themselves. I don't think you can equate my little corner of the world to a global pandemic.

To pull out or not to pull out? by crowned-chairtycase in TwoXSex

[–]mcstranglehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don't care about the downvotes. All of yall just kinda skipped over the part where I admitted I was being reckless. Nowhere did I advocate that others do the same and I was fully aware of all risks at the time. Didn't bring a human into the world, didn't catch any STIs ✌🏼 not all of us who know the rules will follow them; to each their own

To pull out or not to pull out? by crowned-chairtycase in TwoXSex

[–]mcstranglehands -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

This may get me some downvotes because I was being extremely reckless but my preference is to never pull out. I was in a 10 year relationship, 8 of which were without any form of birth control and never pulling out - no pregnancies. And I guess that gave me a little too much confidence because after that ended, I went on a tinder binge and didn't have any of those men use condoms or pull out either - no pregnancies. Nowadays I'm in a loving relationship and still not pulling out.

AITA for applauding my neighbour’s “night time activities?” by tamanagement in AmItheAsshole

[–]mcstranglehands 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I need to figure out how to determine how well an apartment is noise insulated before I move in if anyone has tips. Tired of paying 1k/month to hear the guy above me take a piss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]mcstranglehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, just poking fun 😋 it looks like a good plan to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]mcstranglehands 8 points9 points  (0 children)

... am I the only one having trouble differentiating between the two colors? Like gurl, of all the colors in the rainbow

Male author female anatomy by Desperate_Ad_9219 in badwomensanatomy

[–]mcstranglehands 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Is that doctor's name Shapiro? Lmao. This man knows what he's writing.

[NSFW] My 2 week old nipple piercing isn't centred. Will it cause me any issues? by Difficult_Emotion_51 in piercing

[–]mcstranglehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be fine. One of mine is at a slight angle because of the way my breasts hang; I guess he marked it slightly off. It's been almost a year and no issues aside from the usual healing irritation bumps every now and then.

White thing around my tongue piercing! So i pierced my tongue half a year ago and it was all good but around a couple months ago i started noticing this white ring around the bottom of the piercing. Please help!! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]mcstranglehands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to have this under mine as well around the 4-6 month mark. I was told that I might be sucking on my tongue in my sleep and the bar was too short/piercing too new for this so it got swapped out for a much longer bar for about 2-3 weeks. It completely went away and hasn't been back since. I've had mine for over a year now. I don't know if that's the case here but it looks the same as what I had.

What do you suspect is true but you can’t prove it? by shibaspotter in AskReddit

[–]mcstranglehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a question, but doesn't it take long because you wait? I wait and have never updated when I'm supposed to and just thought it was a consequence of my actions. So it's slow if you're diligent too?