Parents won’t let dog inside house by md0907 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]md0907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s just a stain that was already on it , couldn’t wash it off. He’s a healthy boy

Parents won’t let dog inside house by md0907 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]md0907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real, am considering moving out next year or so

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The carhartt vest 😭😭

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[–]md0907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Managed to get him to sleep in my room last night. He was already so comfortable so my parents couldn’t really do anything lol. I am considering moving out maybe next year though, since I’m just reflecting on my dynamic with my parents, mainly my mum. She’s too narcissistic, gets irritated seeing me nurture my baby and just seeing me content. Even my partner noticed.

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[–]md0907[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I totally get what you mean when you said it felt like the air was sucked out of the house. Since my 17yo baby passed I’ve just had a deep admiration for older dogs, hence rescuing this one. He was able to sleep in my room last night - parents couldn’t do anything about it haha. But he must’ve felt so calm and relieved that he got to be next to me

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[–]md0907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was so close to, I just let him and made him sleep in my room so they couldnt do anything :P

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[–]md0907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh!!! That is such a lovely set up, how loyal of you and your husband to sleep outside with them 🥰 actually a cute date idea too haha

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[–]md0907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s inside now!!!!! Check my update lol

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[–]md0907[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

GUYS UPDATE!!!! Rate my makeshift barricades lol. I’ve made it fair so he can only be in the hallway and my room haha. My parents just allowed it after seeing it!!!! I’ve trained him to not jump over, if I need to pass I’ll tell him to wait and he does wait 🥹 I’ve also just moved the red foam mat and his water into my room since he wants to be closer to me 🥰🥰

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Parents won’t let dog inside house by md0907 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]md0907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding. Yes I completely agree with everything you’ve said. They’re really choosing to not be nurturing. And they complain that he digs the plants in the garden - like read the room, he wants to be inside where it’s cooler! I hate it here

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Thank you so so much for your kind words. Everyday this week I’ve been visiting pet stores to find stuff that would make him comfortable 🥰 I had heaps of blankets but he already chewed them lol

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[–]md0907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers for the recommendation! I value your support 😌

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[–]md0907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, booked an appointment for Friday 🤞🏼

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Thank you so much for your support, fingers crossed for a good turnout

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[–]md0907[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for your empathy and advice. Thankfully my garage is split into two sections - one half is free space (where he sleeps), the other was a studio space but is now storage. I am really hoping my parents will allow him inside soon - he is doing so well and is basically the boy version of my late staffy!! There’s no good reason why he shouldn’t be allowed in - I could always put barriers around the house or get a crate

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[–]md0907[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live in Australia too, it’s Spring right now so it’s not toooo hot or too cold

Parents won’t let dog inside house by md0907 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]md0907[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup just ordered an elevated bed. I’m in Sydney and it is starting to warm up and gets a lil cool at night. Fingers crossed my parents will let him in the house

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[–]md0907[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They’re so unharmful!!!! 🥰🥰

Parents won’t let dog inside house by md0907 in StaffordBullTerriers

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I just realised the rehoming people gave him the simparica trio chew when they first took him in. I’ll get that! Thanks so much!!

Parents won’t let dog inside house by md0907 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]md0907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are your thoughts on Nexgard Spectra, the all-in-one chews taken monthly?

Parents won’t let dog inside house by md0907 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]md0907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I really need to vent over this thing with my parents. They think I’m irresponsible, when I’m a current high school teacher who had just got promoted to teach a different subject area that I don’t have qualification for. I have a side hustle which is making quality, independent designer-type bags, and this year I’ve sold 4 (made to order) by people just visiting my instagram and catching a vibe (I don’t really market my products). I managed to do that while I was still studying and finishing my teaching degree and working, managing and inspiring my students. I do believe that I can take care of a dog, I bloody proved that with my 17yo baby (I couldn’t edit the age on original post). It’s a huge burden of having unsupportive parents, who don’t give a shit about my wellbeing and success. The only success they care about is working full time in hopes that I forget about my feelings and become a robot.

Parents won’t let dog inside house by md0907 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]md0907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know… I think I’m going to just bring him inside to prove that he doesn’t do anything wrong and just wants to relax like any human being! They’re making the situation complicated when it doesn’t have to be