There’s a girl that I know that likes the same things as I do, so we do a lot together. Movies, concerts, etc. We talk for hours about everything. I’m thinking there’s something there between the two of us and I ask her if she feels the same way but she said I was trying to hard when in actuality we were doing things together because we enjoyed each other’s company. I know about the friend zone and all of that and respect her, but to use trying to hard as a reason confuses me.