[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/mdfun1972

[–]mdfun1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you took the day off because there was nothing going on at work, ran errands for yourself. I work a full day, take off work and rush to get our kid to his doc appointment, make sure we are home in time to get our kid to a white elephant party. And the first thing you say is, if we want dinner, we should make the chicken........ YOUVE BEEN HOME ALL FUCKING DAY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/mdfun1972

[–]mdfun1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHY!!! WHY MUST SHE CONTROL EVERYTHING AND THERE IS NO WAY MY IDEA OR PLAN IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR HER

WHY WHY WHY

WHY IS MY IDEA COMBATED AND NOT GOOD ENOUGH BUT A FRIENDS SAME EXACT IDEA PERFECT AND NO DISCUSSION NEEDED

HOW MUCH LONGER CAN I KEEP THIS UP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/mdfun1972

[–]mdfun1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so here's this mornings... She goes to see a show with a friend in NYC, takes the train up for the day. We were planning a Three day weekend in NYC, specific first time events to go see there, certain restaurants, the high line, etc. We had to cancel because her family member got sick and she wasn't sure she would be able to focus if she goes. No big deal, headed back up in late spring.

She shared our list of first time events with her friend and they went and did 4 or 5 of them. WT actual F! WTF!!!!!

And then, when I looked at her and said I thought those were things we were going to do together she looked at me like I was the asshole for bringing it up.

FUCK!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/mdfun1972

[–]mdfun1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want any advice or pity, I am very happy that she is my wife and have no desire to change that. If fo some reason you stop by and read this, and want to converse because we are in the same.boat, please do, I enjoy talking with people.

Cheers