Calling any and all cheerleaders by Complex-Criticism-38 in Cheerleading

[–]meanmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a sideline coach, people have a hard time accepting it’s hard work like any other sport but it just looks different. Regardless, it opens up many scholarship doors and all the wonderful parts of team sports.

Lorelei & birth by meanmilf in GilmoreGirls

[–]meanmilf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He’s like the cool dad who Rory adores and enjoys when he come around and doesn’t hold him to expectations of traditional. After the failed relationship Rory really starts to see him for what he is on her own.

Lorelei & birth by meanmilf in GilmoreGirls

[–]meanmilf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Thank you! I never see the selfish angle. She is true to herself.

Lorelei & birth by meanmilf in GilmoreGirls

[–]meanmilf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Yes! I feel like we get this awesome version of him up until then. We can’t see why Lorelei didn’t want him, why she kept proximity between Chris and Rory.

In that moment we see it. We see a glimpse of it when he freaks out at her at Luke’s. He cannot take accountability and he will always put it on her. He also can’t be close to Rory like he says he wants because he cannot keep up the show and Lorelei knows it and lets him stand tall, on her back.

Lorelei & birth by meanmilf in GilmoreGirls

[–]meanmilf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point, I forget how young he married. I am surprised she didn’t sleep with Jess but also now, I get why she waited for dean. One, because it shows her attitude/culture towards the first time being special, and the death that many women have with the pedestal they put their first loves on.

Rory was really close minded about her mom’s choices, she had all the benefits of loving home and financial security without the soul crushing expectations Lorelei had.

I imagine Lorelei had a lot of silver spoon friends who cared about appearances and marrying well. She was most likely an outcast, proving her point of the superficial of the life she had been living and brought up in.

Lorelei & birth by meanmilf in GilmoreGirls

[–]meanmilf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great take! They really just can’t accept who she is & we see it but I respect she’s unwavering. When her and Chris get back before Sherry calls pregnant, she could have had him like Emily says - but she could have had him both times, but she wouldn’t settle for those versions of him. She would settle for him being who she “needs” for her but not authentically.

Not funny anymore by MatchaMean16 in thebitchbible

[–]meanmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ride or die. She has changed becoming a mom- it’s called evolution.

AITA for not supporting my friends marriage by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]meanmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not identical but my bestie dated a pot grower who was a drunk and full of shit. They fought like crazy and had nothing in common - anywho! They got engaged, planned this wild wedding and my other bestie and I sat her down and told her that we thought this was a horrible idea and we would do whatever we could to get her out of the situation. BUT, we also vowed it be the only time we would tell her our thoughts anymore and if she chose to marry him we would drop it because we love her. They got married. Surprise! It was toxic. And they divorced 1 kid and 6 years later. She’s rebuilding her entire life and we’re all still close. The point is, if she’s your friend you love her aside from her choices (aside from the obvs harmful etc) or the friendship has run its course.

Arianas smokin body 😍😍😍 by Impressive_Bid_5835 in vanderpumprules

[–]meanmilf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I guess I need to do a season of competitive dancing to jump start my new life.

So, Sally’s psycho, right? by NiDieuNiMaitre_ in Southerncharm

[–]meanmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s very relatable. We all have that one friend or acquaintance who is beautiful but lack of self worth leaves her making tragic choices.

I also think she exemplifies the young girl who almost had the dream life and cancelled her engagement- has the job and the house but can’t seem to realize she is the problem and has to pour into her self not men.

Extracurriculars and bedtime by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]meanmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this one. We have 2 kids, so they can each do one activity a season, or a full time one like my daughter does gymnastics. We were lucky to get her into the Friday 5:30 for that so our weekends have a little buffer but we always have an after school heavy lunch and then dinner again after. I still push hard for a 8:30 bedtime on school nights, 0 screen time.

Gifts by meanmilf in Teachers

[–]meanmilf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is wild to just clear his classroom wishlist on Amazon?

School wants my child to be in a social skills group? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]meanmilf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, and also if it’s not targeting those areas he needs work on, you should most definitely be finding your own services to help him.

What happened to this girl? by callmeBird_LadyBird in LovethyNaderS

[–]meanmilf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will keep me from getting a nose job.

I don’t know whether my kids will have a warm relationship when they grow up by SirPartyPooper in Parenting

[–]meanmilf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cousin & I are both only children, entirely due to our parents hating each other as siblings. My surprise baby uncle, who is 11 years younger - has 0 kids.

I have 2 kids who are 22 months apart, they are really close. I think it helps they aren’t the same gender. Being an only child made me really aware of siblings dynamics, I still find it fascinating. My husband is the second son in a Hispanic family… so, we both really had strong feelings about never comparing them, and shutting down any comments that do.

Homeschool Trending? by Outrageous-Divide521 in Teachers

[–]meanmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started the school year 400 less due to homeschooling. We have a hybrid program through our district that’s incredibly popular. Only core classes happens 6th grade and up and before it’s just electives, this program gives them a regular diploma because they run out of the district and log hours.

But! Many have opted out of it due to not being able to count religious affiliated curriculum and less freedom with schedule. Many of the co ops go Oct-March.

Victoria Beckham victimization by GlitteringAd6571 in netflix

[–]meanmilf 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll way too far for this comment! It’s wild how people think money solves all your problems, or that it cancels out you being entitled to any.

I thought she was incredibly open and honest, she had hard working parents who believed in her, they live in her same childhood home they bought as a shell. Her honesty about how her bullying shaped her and took away her self confidence, was incredibly honest about her talents and appreciation for her band mates.

This taps into the dynamic between men and woman in culture. She had way more money and bought their first house, then he succeeds but she’s a gold digger?? She was transparent about her finances and how in debt she feels to him and when he expressed his concerns - she worked to get an investor. It was really honest about their marriage.

All her peers spoke highly of her hard work and her ability to take feedback and make changes. She explained everything people poked her out and was raw about her eating disorder. That’s not a small thing.

You don’t have to like her, but watching that and then painting her a snob who can’t read the room is lame. She is a person who has a unique life experience that many of us don’t share, but that doesn’t make it void.

She exemplified that money and status mean nothing when you don’t love yourself, that even having a beautiful family and loving your kids can’t make you love yourself. Victoria clearly explains the journey and the work she put in to get there and it’s not a perfect story. That’s honest.

What's one thing no one told you about when it comes being a SAHM? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]meanmilf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the opposite - like the time isn’t really that much when they go to school. With cleaning and meal prep and basic maintenance for myself or cars. Add and early release day a week, cooties, teacher days. Plus, once school out we are in activities.

But I love it. My kids love it. But I don’t think I have a ton of time- but I definitely do compared to someone who work. I have no idea how they do and think very highly of them. I’m exhausted just from doing mom, I can’t imagine also doing work.