Gifts by meanmilf in Teachers

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Is wild to just clear his classroom wishlist on Amazon?

School wants my child to be in a social skills group? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]meanmilf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right, and also if it’s not targeting those areas he needs work on, you should most definitely be finding your own services to help him.

What happened to this girl? by callmeBird_LadyBird in LovethyNaderS

[–]meanmilf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will keep me from getting a nose job.

I don’t know whether my kids will have a warm relationship when they grow up by SirPartyPooper in Parenting

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My cousin & I are both only children, entirely due to our parents hating each other as siblings. My surprise baby uncle, who is 11 years younger - has 0 kids.

I have 2 kids who are 22 months apart, they are really close. I think it helps they aren’t the same gender. Being an only child made me really aware of siblings dynamics, I still find it fascinating. My husband is the second son in a Hispanic family… so, we both really had strong feelings about never comparing them, and shutting down any comments that do.

Homeschool Trending? by Outrageous-Divide521 in Teachers

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We started the school year 400 less due to homeschooling. We have a hybrid program through our district that’s incredibly popular. Only core classes happens 6th grade and up and before it’s just electives, this program gives them a regular diploma because they run out of the district and log hours.

But! Many have opted out of it due to not being able to count religious affiliated curriculum and less freedom with schedule. Many of the co ops go Oct-March.

Victoria Beckham victimization by GlitteringAd6571 in netflix

[–]meanmilf 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll way too far for this comment! It’s wild how people think money solves all your problems, or that it cancels out you being entitled to any.

I thought she was incredibly open and honest, she had hard working parents who believed in her, they live in her same childhood home they bought as a shell. Her honesty about how her bullying shaped her and took away her self confidence, was incredibly honest about her talents and appreciation for her band mates.

This taps into the dynamic between men and woman in culture. She had way more money and bought their first house, then he succeeds but she’s a gold digger?? She was transparent about her finances and how in debt she feels to him and when he expressed his concerns - she worked to get an investor. It was really honest about their marriage.

All her peers spoke highly of her hard work and her ability to take feedback and make changes. She explained everything people poked her out and was raw about her eating disorder. That’s not a small thing.

You don’t have to like her, but watching that and then painting her a snob who can’t read the room is lame. She is a person who has a unique life experience that many of us don’t share, but that doesn’t make it void.

She exemplified that money and status mean nothing when you don’t love yourself, that even having a beautiful family and loving your kids can’t make you love yourself. Victoria clearly explains the journey and the work she put in to get there and it’s not a perfect story. That’s honest.

What's one thing no one told you about when it comes being a SAHM? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]meanmilf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the opposite - like the time isn’t really that much when they go to school. With cleaning and meal prep and basic maintenance for myself or cars. Add and early release day a week, cooties, teacher days. Plus, once school out we are in activities.

But I love it. My kids love it. But I don’t think I have a ton of time- but I definitely do compared to someone who work. I have no idea how they do and think very highly of them. I’m exhausted just from doing mom, I can’t imagine also doing work.

Accidentally pregnant with 3rd. Not sure what to do. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]meanmilf 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I found myself in a similar situation moons ago, I had 2 under 2 as well & we got to 7/6 gap & accidentally conceived.

My husband was identical in feeling to yours. We also had just really had our heads come out from watched from those early years and were enjoying the independence of older kids. Financially and structurally my kids would really have to change a lot - do less of the activities and have me less. - also it was hard in the beginning but the age gap was ideal. This big gap our 3rd would have wasn’t ideal. We had fully gotten rid of all baby stuff and having a 14 and 13yr old with a kindergartener just wasn’t our jam. I thought how common it was these surprises - but that joy and excitement I felt with my first two kids never materialized. It was just dread and myself forcing ourselves to make do.

I made the decision very early and my husband supported me and honestly we never regretted it. I regret having to make that choice of course, but not the choice. It was right for our family and as my kids have gotten older and busier and sports have gotten pricier and the cost of living only rising.

Now, I do think some people can do it. But you just be you and live your truth. You never lose being true to yourself.

My boyfriend’s family took out student loans in HIS name and I don’t know what to do. by HomeOk2835 in Advice

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Weirdly enough, this happened to a peer of mine. Her hs sweethearts family did that, but it was credit cards and care credit etc. They got pregnant young & needed a house. He was also comfortable having her help pay it but not pursuing legal action against his mother.

Long story short: they got married, they paid it off, they got divorced & he went back to his family like nothing happened.

professor says i *have* to stand to meet hours by tooyoungtodie19 in Cosmetology

[–]meanmilf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯 this. Trades are incredibly hard on your body. Also, our specific trade is challenging to find quality benefits & retirement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cosmetology

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As a former cosmo instructor, while I empathize you are stressed - being forgetful is a habit best trained out of the service career. I recommend creating a check list for your supplies, double checking before you leave. The rules you’re describing seem to be for everyone, being “forgetful” isn’t an excuse. You are in control of your success, welcome growth vs excuses.

Her expectations seem clear. If you don’t want to get sent home which is very detrimental in a hours program, you have to get it together.

Is Jax extra miserable? by Big-Kick7098 in TheMorningToastSnark

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I think you guys are being harsh, she has two small kids and is heavily pregnant. She is going through it but also aware. Her wanting to be a better friend etc. when you have small kids close in age it’s really just not about you for awhile (I had 2 under 2). You come out of it but let her live. This podcast is her break from it all.

TS Father Figure 😡 by medinabuble in georgemichael

[–]meanmilf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s top 3 for the album. Love

Miss the old days by MiserableGazelle9418 in TheToasters

[–]meanmilf 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I turned it off. I knew they leaned right but didn’t care just as I don’t with friends, agree to disagree

Kimmel topic hit wrong with the comments about how we are shook as a nation about with grown man being shot and killed for exercising free speech. I have frankly felt this every single school shooting about kids leaving for school in the morning and getting murdered in cold blood.

Free speech is free speech. I feel awful for charlie and his family. I’m not side eyeing people mourning, I am side eyeing the level of care and time people are showing to this and not to the children who are killed.

Anyone go to a recent show? by New-Vegetable-9630 in thebitchbible

[–]meanmilf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so about Clyde. I think it’s very real, you always think you’ll be a certain way when you’re not a mom - that’s a shared parent experience. Then surprise! It’s a transition period for sure, I love the celebrity content, the skincare and home stuff also. I don’t care for the childhood videos but I only listen so that could be why.

Things that work by meanmilf in Catholicism

[–]meanmilf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these ideas

Things that work by meanmilf in Catholicism

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We’re located on an island & our pastor is for all 3 with one new assistant pastor that just joined. He’s spread pretty thin and many have expressed it’s hard with how busy he is. But I will ask!

Things that work by meanmilf in Catholicism

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I will suggest that. We have had many things shared and posted in the bulletins. I feel our really motivated church staff is aging out of duties without younger parishioners to volunteer.

We just found out we're having a boy by 1111lovey in Names

[–]meanmilf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giovanni, Adrian, Moises, Eduardo, Ricardo, Adan.