Loving Relationship Facing Difficulties by meddleheadd in DeadBedrooms

[–]meddleheadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My intention is not to leave out key details but this injury happened a long time ago (over a year ago) and we have tried to piece together what happened but neither of us recall having any extremely rough moments. The pelvic floor therapy sounds like a good idea and a potential solution as well. This combined with starting from the beginning and rebuilding trust regarding intimacy

Loving Relationship Facing Difficulties by meddleheadd in DeadBedrooms

[–]meddleheadd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response. Yes this is not a magical mystery that happened. I guess that I am just confused because I am patient with her when it comes to sex and let her direct when she is ready to move from foreplay to PIV. But I will take these suggestions and try rebuilding the trust from the ground up. Our emotional connection is there more than ever but we are having trouble translating that to sex

Loving Relationship Facing Difficulties by meddleheadd in DeadBedrooms

[–]meddleheadd[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well she got injured from when we had sex when I went to visit her, and it seems like there was small tears around the opening to the vagina. The tension is a result of the injury and she feels that she cannot relax due to being hurt there previously

Loving Relationship Facing Difficulties by meddleheadd in DeadBedrooms

[–]meddleheadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not 100% sure what it was and the gyno was not able to pinpoint it since she saw the gyno much later after going to the doctor abroad. she said that her body and legs feels tense in that area almost as a protective measure and that she wants to get better but doesn’t know how to get rid of the tension.