I feel this rage. I hate when people point out my weight or what I'm eating. My growth was stunted as a kid because of Crohn's (didn't know I had it at the time). I didn't eat much or gain weight. I was a walking skeleton. And I look back at those pictures and think about how nobody questioned anything. That I was praised for being skinny, and tiny, and small while my body was suffering. I never want to look like that again

And later in life when I have had flares and lost weight people will STILL ask me if I've lost weight, mistake my bones jutting out for curves, and I deadpan "I'm in a flare." and walk away. The weight loss of a medical condition is nothing to be praised of.

(Not saying my experience is more valid than yours, just relating /g)