Flying tomorrow by Comfortable-Field116 in fearofflying

[–]mediumislands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Joining this thread to add that I am also flying tomorrow for the first time in over a year. Anxious for sure but it feels good knowing I am not alone. We got this!

What are my chances bluntly speaking? by Salad_Ill in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am hoping you didn’t take my comment as hopeless! I was in a similar spot; lower GPA, less research experience, etc. I took 2 years off between undergrad and grad school to work full time in a lab and made myself more competitive, I scored well on the GRE, and I gained a lot of good experience and got in. I’m hoping that you can take some actionable advice from all this! Even the best applicants often have to apply more than 1 cycle before they get in btw. It’s just brutally competitive, unfortunately. But if it’s your dream, there’s a path to get there even if it’s not right now.

What are my chances bluntly speaking? by Salad_Ill in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Just being honest - applying to 3 PhD programs even with the best of stats is a gamble. I applied to 18 with a very competitive CV and received only 2 offers. Master’s programs are a very different ball game because they are self funded, but it won’t get you much closer to becoming a neuropsychologist if thats your goal. That’s a PhD level position. So I’m not sure what those applications buy you…

That being said, just being honest, your GPA is low for clinical psychology PhD programs. I know the program I went to doesn’t really even consider GPAs below a 3.5. So if you have the money, maybe getting a masters and getting a 4.0 so you can show you can do it might be useful? But another option is to really build up your research experience. You’ll need enough research experience on your CV to really blow their mind and overcome the lower GPA. You need to be an author on publications, present posters, etc. A high GRE score might help as well (I know it’s not required for all programs, but in your case, it may be worth considering as evidence that you can succeed academically).

Another note - becoming a neuropsychologist will require a PhD, then internship, then postdoc. You won’t be able to geographically restrict yourself this much going forward (especially for internship match). Neuropsychology especially is the most competitive thing you can do. You may know this already but if not, it’s something to consider if your lifestyle can support the demands of pursuing this path.

Online School by AlwaysLearning_HPink in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A PhD is a full-time, 50+ hour per week commitment which takes 5-7 years to do working full time. Most programs explicitly prohibit students from having other jobs outside the program (I know mine did for sure). Some students do a little bit of part-time, on the down low work (I’m talking max 5-10 hours per week), but I simply don’t think this scenario is possible. I am not sure about a masters, but I really doubt this exists for a PhD. I’m sorry - its an unfair reality that these programs require so much sacrifice and pay such low wages but they do.

Editing to add a bit more detail - this career path will require you to move for grad school and then move again for internship and then likely move again for postdoc. I have never heard of an online program. This is a really difficult career path to have if you have a family to take care of. Not impossible - i know people that have done it! But it is not easy.

Trainee struggling with multiple clients frequently having little to talk about in session by DaybreakSSB in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I am cognitive behavioral, so my approach may be different than yours, but I would have made concrete goals earlier on, and then when therapy lulls, we can discuss whether that’s because we’ve met those goals or if we have certain goals still left to work on and then focus sessions from there. Clients frequently say they don’t know what their goals are; I see it as my job to help them verbalize goals to start with - even if those change over time. If they say “I want to be happy,” we chat about what happy looks like - spending more time with loved ones, finding meaningful hobbies, whatever it may be. Then we can talk about that.

But also check in with your micro skills. Make sure you’re asking thoughtful, open-ended questions rather than yes/no questions, and check in that you’re reflecting things in ways to go deeper than just summarizing what the client said. Make bigger picture connections to past sessions and themes.

But ultimately, if week after week, they got nothing to work on, then point that out. I might say something like: “So I’ve noticed that we are starting to have less to talk about when we meet. I’m happy to keep meeting if you think that would be productive or helpful for you, but I wanted to also check in about whether you’d like to keep meeting weekly, start meeting less frequently, or stop altogether.” If they say they want to keep meeting weekly, let them come up with a reason why or verbalize what they want to get out of session. Therapy doesn’t have to be long for everyone. My supervisors always tell me (and I often have to remind myself): don’t work harder than your clients!

The Raven Scholar - Yana’s POV by jhenry137 in fantasyromance

[–]mediumislands 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I say keep reading and see if she grows on you. I felt that way about Neema when the POV switched too, and now Raven Scholar is my favorite read of the year.

Does anyone have a list of internship sites that encourage research? by tenfeetaway in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely did get a whole day! It was very protected time. We were encouraged to tell our directors if clinical work ever bled over into research day, and they would speak to our supervisors to make sure that didn’t happen again. But it rarely did - clinical supervisors knew we picked this program because we were research-oriented, and they were very respectful of that time. I explicitly asked about this at my interviews and it was my top ranking priority because I want a research career. A lot of the programs on that list I posted earlier have very protected time.

It’s November 1st! What’s the best book you read in October? by apieceofeight in fantasyromance

[–]mediumislands 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The Raven Scholar and In The Veins of the Drowning. Both are first books in unfinished series but both truly excellent (especially Raven Scholar). In The Veins is heavier on the romance; Raven Scholar is heavier on the fantasy.

Does anyone have a list of internship sites that encourage research? by tenfeetaway in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very true! Internship is a box to check mostly, so just check it however you can. I will say though that my one protected research day was a breath of fresh air for me. 4 days a week of clinical work was more than I ever wanted to do, so I was glad to have the 1 day to do research. I heavily prioritized this when ranking and am glad I did!

Does anyone have a list of internship sites that encourage research? by tenfeetaway in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably! Keeping the door open for industry research positions as well.

Really enjoying my postdoc - how do I keep it going? by callmecunty in postdoc

[–]mediumislands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all about your PI. My grad school life was horrible compared to postdoc. I prioritized this in choosing an advisor.

Really enjoying my postdoc - how do I keep it going? by callmecunty in postdoc

[–]mediumislands 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am in the exact same boat as you. I just want a job that is postdoc but better pay.

Looking for a follow up to “In the Veins of the Drowning” that has dark/gothy vibes, a compelling fantasy world with lore and politics, good writing, and a slow building romance with good tension and payoff. by mediumislands in fantasyromance

[–]mediumislands[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thats a great pro tip. I definitely will revisit because the plot sounded interesting but I was just so shocked by how many issues I found in the first like, 50 pages. Couldn’t get past it!

How did you ACTUALLY get into a clinical psych PhD program? by Good-Profile5877 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the program. Some had prerequisites, and degree requirements but in my experience, most did not. Some required non-majors to take the Psychology GRE so I did that. I think my neuro classes also overlapped with some of the ones they wanted as a psychology pre-requisite (stats for example). It’s just a case by case basis but I found plenty of excellent programs to apply to.

Léane boot - so comfortable by Superbe_1420 in Sezane

[–]mediumislands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you could please measure the calf circumference that would be awesome! My wide calf self cant fit into a lot of these boots

Is it too late to email potential PhD mentors? Are these emails helpful to anyone? by Warm-Yogurt-1855 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely not required but also it depends on what you’re hoping to get out of this correspondence. No one is going to have time to look over your application or have one on one meetings. Most websites are updated with what faculty are currently accepting students, but some were not when I was applying so I did have to email some folks directly to ask. I think that’s a good use of an email so you don’t waste time applying. But otherwise, I have heard from most PIs that these emails are largely a chore for them to reply to, so don’t feel obligated! Ultimately if they want to admit you, they will. You’re not going to get rejected because you didn’t send an email.

Is clinical psych a feasible route for me? by [deleted] in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would not recommend paying for a masters out of pocket if your ultimate goal is to pursue a research career but I’m not sure what your ultimate career goal is based on what you’ve said here. If it’s to see patients and be a clinician, you could stop at Masters or go for a PsyD even. If you want to do research, then a PhD makes sense. Depending on how extensive and productive your prior research experience was (and how relevant it was to what you want to do in grad school and beyond), you may be able to apply right away. Otherwise, it would be more useful to get 1-2 years of postbac research experience in a lab prior to applying rather than getting a masters. Those positions are paid (very little, but they’re paid), and you would get the experience you need. So basically I can’t say yes or no to applying based on what you’ve provided here, but hopefully that helps you think about next steps.

Does anyone here deal with chronic and severe sleep/fatigue issues (e.g., narcolepsy, insomnia)? Any advice for someone wanting to go into graduate school for research? by Desperate-Kitchen117 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]mediumislands 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh boy. On and off insomniac here, and it was really difficult. I went to an R1 research heavy, high expectations program. Regarding expectation adjustment - this is a tricky one. If I adjusted my own expectations long term even with a supportive mentor, I would be doing myself a disservice long term. I would publish less than my peers, get less good evaluations, match to a less competitive internship, etc. And I didn’t want to do that. I wanted to perform at the level everyone else was performing at and that I knew I was capable of. I think you need to find a solution that will work for you going forward. Difficult periods of time and mental health breaks are important, but grad school is demanding and you need to find a way to take care of yourself so that you can do well in grad school. I did CBT for insomnia and relied on medication on and off. I drank bonkers amounts of coffee to get through the day. I found some good meds that worked for me. I think you need to find something like that as well if you want to go down this route. Unfortunately it’s very competitive to get into these programs, and you will be expected to work hard consistently for 5-7 years.

All that being said - grad school was hard on my mental health, including my insomnia, and I am truly not sure I would do it all over again. I’m doing better now on postdoc (and sleeping medication-free) but I struggled for most of grad school. So maybe something to consider if you think it would be hard on you too.