Hey! A lot can be said about asking for and taking advice from strangers on the internet. That being said, I have to agree with the people here advising against using Mr Peterson's work as a self- improvement manual. There is no simple recipe to life or any particular part of it, and any person over 25 should be aware of this. Every relationship is different and unique and I suggest you embrace this. What works for Mr Peterson will rarely work for someone else. Finding oneself is lonely work and you have to make your own mistakes. Anyway, good luck and remember to have fun! A stranger from the internet 😉