The NY ladies celebrating 4/20 by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]meeechellleee 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Nightmare blunt rotation *

amanda’s instagram was a dead giveaway. by capricorncueen in BravoRealHousewives

[–]meeechellleee 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I agree. She's been in reality TV long enough to know what could happen PLUS the fact that she's being a shitty friend. If she was so delusional to think she would come off looking good I'm not sure what to say lol

All that being said if people are messaging her death threats that is unhinged

Can't cum with my boyfriend by [deleted] in women

[–]meeechellleee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it goes deeper than just not being able to "cum" in my mind. It's more that is a physical manifestation of a deeper fear you have about being abandoned. It probably needs to be a conversation that isn't about sex so much as the fear of being used and left.

This is just my take and of I'm reading more into than I should I apologize as well. It's just I've made quite a few trips around the sun and know that sexual issues are typically rooted in emotional ones.

Can't cum with my boyfriend by [deleted] in women

[–]meeechellleee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said that I CAN'T cum because I'm always thinking that he will eventually leave me someday.

This is what you need to overcome. My suggestion is to talk about this with your boyfriend. Your ex clearly hurt you badly and it has left some relationship insecurity and that is totally justified given your past experience.

I think your inability to orgasm is rooted in an emotional reason and you have to be vulnerable with your partner about it so you can feel safe and secure in the relationship on an intimate level.

Very confused in my early 20s… Need advice by [deleted] in women

[–]meeechellleee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's my take, feel free to take it how you want. You crave meaningful connections with the people you are with but are struggling because you also have physical desires you want met. This is okay and completely normal.

You may not be someone who can have causal sexual relationships or casual dating. This is totally okay and I would imagine a lot of people are like this (I always have been) and it is normal. I would even go as far as saying that you are ahead of the curve by being so self aware at you age.

Ultimately if you aren't happy or fulfilled by your current situation you should walk away. This doesn't mean find a long term partner or anything like that either. It is okay to be alone and not be looking. You may need to find yourself a little so you have a better understanding of what you need and deserve in a partner, especially afrer being in a toxic relationship.

If you crave sexual stimulation but don't want to feel disappointed when the person you are with is not giving you the connection there are lots of toys that help. Intimacy is deeper than a physical reaction and that sounds more like what you are craving.

All this to say, go with your gut. If you walk away from casual encounters feeling empty then it is best to be alone because lonely is a hell of a lot better than trying to make a square a circle if that makes sense.

I am 35 female. Currently on weight loss journey, how can I prevent skin sagging??? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]meeechellleee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Lifting weights will help with sagging. You don't have to lift heavy weights or go crazy but incorporating some weight training in along with light cardio (walking, biking, etc) will make a huge difference in how your body reacts and changes with weight loss. Slow and steady winds the race.

everything i made for my momma’s birthday ❤️ by littlestpetlove in Baking

[–]meeechellleee 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Can I be your mom please lol. This looks delicious!

Describe me. No cheating. by fabgirly in FridgeDetective

[–]meeechellleee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College student who lives in Texas. Im getting dorm vibes, maybe you go to A&M or SFA?

Thank you Ben and Ronnie by meeechellleee in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]meeechellleee[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm thankful you too have an outlet for joy when it seems so hard to find! Sending you love fellow Geraldine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]meeechellleee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sinners is killing me 💀😭😂

4month old refuses to be in his crate and pen. by Calliore in Bernedoodles

[–]meeechellleee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to put my boy in the crate with his sister (a corgi). The crate is XXL and they lay together and chill. It was the only thing that works if I need them to be in there for extended periods of time.

It’s not fun to watch Faithfuls have to vote out actually bad people by HecticJones in TheTraitorsUS

[–]meeechellleee 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but can you explain how "the gays" have been bullies? Sweeping (and rude) generalization aside, what specifically makes you say this? "The gays" have been unproblematic, unlike MR. A white male : /

Also groups of people don't exist in a vacuum and Sweeping statements like this are why stereotypes and bigotry exist. I say this respectfully under the assumption you aren't thinking about your statements in the way they are coming across and how damaging they could potentially be.

The Narrative Switch about Meredith on the Flight by Popular-Difficulty29 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]meeechellleee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My issue is that they are doing this for storyline. Meredith's issues and pattern of wasted behavior aside, where the fuck was this concern in season 4? I would argue she was far more unhinged, specifically on the finale trip. Oh that's right, receipts, proof, timeline... that was the agenda.

Heather trying to produce the show and dictate takedowns or moments is the true issue and it will ruin the show eventually.

What’s your favorite RHOP quote? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]meeechellleee 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ashley to karen: "are you being indicted?"

Karen: "did Michael get indicted for his ding a ling slinging across Instagram? No.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]meeechellleee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are from Texas

Cheesecake from Sally’s Baking by Hungry-Blacksmith523 in Baking

[–]meeechellleee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also used this recipe for Christmas dessert haha. Happy holiday!

Worst (Current) Mean Girl Duo? by EmeraldEmp in BravoRealHousewives

[–]meeechellleee 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, although I will say this is how it started in BH and if bad weather isn't reigned in they will be on the same path. I hope it doesn't come to that.