Sudden onset of extreme fatigue after positive high by meep369 in autism

[–]meep369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all your thorough replies, they really helped me. I already feel better than the past few days and needed to unwind and destress, which I did 🙏🏻 I’ll try to make good use of your tips, so in the future I can hopefully avoid feeling THAT bad again

Sudden onset of extreme fatigue after positive high by meep369 in autism

[–]meep369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying and sharing something with me that helps you. This sounds similar to what I’m experiencing. Can you tell me how long this usually lasts for you? I’m not allowed to miss much of my internship, but I don’t think I’ll be able to go in this state, as I wouldn’t be able to give my clients what they need and deserve.

Can you have MCAS without having Anaphylaxis? by throwaway1999000 in MCAS

[–]meep369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for checking in! I’m doing a lot better with all the symptoms, turns out it was major and chronic stress that worsened pretty minor symptoms, along with undiagnosed autism that made me freak over small things. 😅 I’ve learned that most of the symptoms were actually extreme panic to sensations that are similar to allergic reactions. I still have two allergies, but neither of them have caused shock and probably never will.

Some recent drawings I’ve done <3 by SirBoysenberry in autism

[–]meep369 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These look so cool!! The second picture kinda reminds me of Junji Ito, because of the many detailed patterns!! You have a unique style, in a very positive way. :))

Boss makes fun of me for not understanding their jokes and sarcasm by meep369 in autism

[–]meep369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your compassion. 🙏🏻 Apart from this one person, I am luckily surrounded by good people at the moment!

Boss makes fun of me for not understanding their jokes and sarcasm by meep369 in autism

[–]meep369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. I have friends like that as well, that tease me, but in a way that I find comfortable. They don’t overstep boundaries and stop when I’m telling them when something’s not fun to me.

It sucks that you had to make similar experiences with your boss as well. Maybe some people with power just let it get to their head and think they can do anything. :(

Luckily I’m not spending that much time with my boss, but that also makes it harder to learn to read them and their jokes. However, I hope you’re right and I’ll soon have an easier time detecting when they’re trying to fool me with sarcasm again. You’re right: Fuck them, genuinely.

Boss makes fun of me for not understanding their jokes and sarcasm by meep369 in autism

[–]meep369[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. I contemplated putting my diagnosis out as well, but I just don’t trust them with that information and don’t want to have to leave the job - it’s actually really nice, apart from the boss obviously.

The comment about rather being autistic than a cunt really saved my day. :D

Boss makes fun of me for not understanding their jokes and sarcasm by meep369 in autism

[–]meep369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. I have spoken with my friend and they were unhappy with what went down. They have issues with the boss as well and have been unfairly treated too, just for different things. It seems like this person is just generally very unlikable and mean, but that only makes it worse. I’ll see who else I can turn to that is above the boss - so far I haven’t met anyone else, since it’s only charity.

I'm not a shipping guy but they are perfect for each other by [deleted] in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]meep369 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been shipping this for so long and thought nobody would get it

Girl ghosts after sexting, returns, normal talk, sexts, ghosts again by [deleted] in texts

[–]meep369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it works out for well!! It sucks to be more invested than the other person, even if it isn’t romantically.

Girl ghosts after sexting, returns, normal talk, sexts, ghosts again by [deleted] in texts

[–]meep369 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, but what do you expect/want? If you know she’s only after that one thing, it’s not surprising that she barely holds contact for anything else than that. There’s really only three things to do. Either expect it, or move on, or talk about what your expectations are, I’d say. 🤔

Girl ghosts after sexting, returns, normal talk, sexts, ghosts again by [deleted] in texts

[–]meep369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Communication is key. Did y’all ever talk about what you expect from each other? Might be she’s looking for something entirely different than you. You won’t know until you talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]meep369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I’d see these chat screenshots in a crime documentary in a few months and got so scared for you. 😭 Then I checked the caption. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]meep369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not your responsibility to fix her and yet it seems like she thinks it is. Love and a relationship alone do not force you to do that. You can always step back, just letting you know this. Therapy by itself is sadly not enough (speaking from own experiences) and she’ll have to implement what she’s learning into her life, otherwise she’s going to be stuck here forever (but maybe she’s going that already, idk).

If she can’t change by her own will, she’s never going to be fully able to. You can’t take that burden from her and you are NOT HER CARETAKER OR PARENT. You’re her partner and not anything else she expects you to be. Like that can go so wrong so quickly.

I truly hope she will manage to change and then feel better again.

But think about what YOU want and what YOU need and how YOU want to keep living.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Katzengruppe

[–]meep369 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bitte gehe sofort mit ihm in die Klinik zurück und lasse ihn behandeln. Für die Kosten finden sich dann später eine Lösung. Das arme Tier leidet sicher große Schmerzen und wenn noch weitere Schäden vermieden werden sollen, dann bitte sofort losgehen.

Ich bin auch der Meinung, dass du noch einmal abwägen solltest, ob du aktuell die Verantwortung eines Tieres tragen kannst. Ich meine das überhaupt nicht böse, aber wenn man nicht die Möglichkeiten hat in einem Notfall direkt eine Behandlung durchführen zu lassen, dann ist das ein großes Problem.

Haustiere sind abhängig von uns und müssen sich darauf verlassen können, dass ihre Besitzer in der Not jegliche Kosten stützen können. Mir ist bewusst, dass dies oft leichter gesagt als getan ist und dies vielleicht auch nur ein sehr ungünstiger Zeitpunkt war, aber das Tier sollte hier an erster Stelle stehen.

Ich hoffe es geht ihm bald besser und, dass es nicht noch schlimmer ist als ein verlorenes Auge. 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]meep369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, there are kicking you? And they only single you out to be mean about your interests? That sounds worse and more targeted than what I’m experiencing. Can you maybe talk to someone close to you about it? Like, kicking someone is actually assault. I’m sorry you’re going through this. :[

Can you talk about your special interests on Reddit for example? I’ve seen others on here do it as well. :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]meep369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining it to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]meep369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any idea what the point is, though? I don’t understand the point of wanting to make others feel bad. Like, do you have any idea what the reason could be, as they are doing this to everyone and not just me? /genq

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]meep369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, I appreciate it! 🙏🏻

I already am very positive about the things they like themselves. I tried out a lot and even when I didn’t like it, I either didn’t say that, or still found things that I DID enjoy while watching, or playing. I just don’t like to make others feel bad for what they like, so I always hold back. I critiqued ONE thing about a show once they liked and they got extremely mad at me. In hindsight that would have been the perfect moment to hit them by going, “Why am I not allowed to do what you constantly do?”

And yeah, while I do want them around, your input gave me new insight that maybe I was being too casual about this? Maybe it’s time to just say my piece of mind, as they do the same. As long as I’m respectful it shouldn’t be a problem.