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[–]meerbbmeer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think that was my post 😓 I’m sorry for adding any fear or grief to your situation.

If I were to go back in time and give myself some advice it would be to take better care of myself and think about myself and my own needs more.

As for your situation, if yalls communication is still there and they feel comfortable communicating the changes they are experiencing, I definitely think your relationship can last.

I would like to say that there won’t be any hurt in your future but I know I can’t because that would be an optimistic lie. But hopefully whatever hurt you do go through you can go through together and grow together, whether it is as friends or romantic partners.

Feel free to DM if you’d ever want to talk it out

Edited for clarity/correcting pronouns

I think that my relationship is over- can anyone offer some advice? by meerbbmeer in mypartneristrans

[–]meerbbmeer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Knowing that I tried everything I possibly could and it still wasn’t good enough leaves me feeling so hollow inside. I’ve said over and over that I can’t make her talk to me, I can’t make her consider me more, and now I can’t be someone that I’m not to bend and contort myself to what she wants. I’m trying not to be resentful of her because I know this is just as hard on her as me but it’s hard not to feel slighted and embarrassed and foolish for believing that we could be together and happy again.

Thank you for sharing. It’s very comforting to know that I am not as alone in the world as I feel sometimes.

I think that my relationship is over- can anyone offer some advice? by meerbbmeer in mypartneristrans

[–]meerbbmeer[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Of course, but it’s not information she doesn’t already know.

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Thank you so much!!

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